It is because of the Coolidge effect, Google it. Sadly you will never get as great a high from one person as you will from a variety. However highs are temporary and not ultimately fulfilling. Just decide that you are not going to do it. Make it easy for your wife to know where you are and what you are doing and the temptation will go away.

Like everyone else has said, don't let fun ruin your marriage. And I think Galaxy said, chat to your wife about the kinkier things. Run her a nice bath with candles and music and whisper something naughty in her ear. You may be surprised - she may also want to do something out of the ordinary, but be too shy or worried about what you will think.

Ultimately, sex is fun and fulfilling on its own merit, but nothing beats a great sexual relationship with someone you love deeply.

If you feel that it may be an actual addiction, by all means chat to a professional counsellor.

It really sounds like you have a good thing - don't risk it.

xxx

I must admit I'm very surprised at the WGs responses here, almost trying to tell this punter NOT to punt.

I remember in the past WGs be like "punting's not cheating; It will help your marriage" etc etc becoz the bra is a potential client, lol

On 2018-02-19 10:34:56 chancetaker said:
I worry that one day this habit will ruin a very good thing

You have answered yourself. That is exactly what is going to happen. Dont take chances chancetaker.

If you're going to feel guilty about your "hobby" you should stop. The mind is powerful (believe me) and guilt WILL surely fuck you up when you can least afford it to.

On 2018-02-19 12:00:20 StoneColdSteve said:
Chancetaker, bad news..... this hobby WILL ruin your marriage! I would say go see a counselor and get some help, sounds like there are some underlying issues that needs to be sorted. If your wife is into 'it' , then you are a very lucky guy!! Plus you mentioned that she absalutely beautiful...... Go fight for what you already have! Or lose it all, your choice......

agreed , hope she opens up to the idea of all this - If not then good luck to you both .

Take it from me, I talk from experience.

It has already ruined your marriage, you will forever have this secret that you cannot share with her. Living a lie for the rest of your married life. Not an easy thing to do.

On 2018-02-19 14:51:01 Rasgulla said:
I must admit I'm very surprised at the WGs responses here, almost trying to tell this punter NOT to punt.

I remember in the past WGs be like "punting's not cheating; It will help your marriage" etc etc becoz the bra is a potential client, lol

We do appreciate the beautiful things in life and are not in this to ruin lives :)

Not always about the money... xx

Hey Son.... yes my sons your age.....
Ive had the best and worst of countless woman over two decades....
Seek some professional help and advise...
Take care of what u have at home... Take GOOD care of that...
Soon You will have kids... Then..... Well... u'll see...
Good Luck....
U may PM me if u wud like any further info...
T...