On 2018-04-30 21:42:13 micExp said:
On 2018-04-30 11:38:12 Minette said: micExp, I'm glad that I could help to make it easier for you. xx

Make it easier??? You created a memory that is impossible to beat Minette LOL! This was a very long time ago and I have never went back only because I didn't want that memory to ever change. I can still recall the details and you will always be extremely special to me... thank you xxxx

Wow! I never knew that I made such an impact on you!
Maybe I'll see you again sometime in the future? Xxx

To be honest Minette... This post has made me wonder if I shouldn't visit you again...

I doubt you will remember me, but maybe after all these years I could maybe make an impression on you ;-) LOL xxx

Eye contact, eye contact...
Make us feel like the centre of the universe and we'll give everything we have to spend time with you...

I think everything has been said here...agree with Ben, sexy heels are a must and dress up in lingerie.Boobs 100%. The seduction is more important than the ending. Sensuality, passion and TLC.

Oh... And I thought of another important factor... IMAGINATION LOL!

So many girls are just interested in getting it done. There's absolutely no imagination. Why do men LOVE lingerie??? Cause they imagine what it hidden underneath :-)

Seeing a naked girl, it's like... Just another naked chick... But when they wear a little something, it's like... WOW! She is half naked!!

I think ESA admin should add another category for the reviews called "imagination" :-)

In my professional life I am in the world of making sure customer requirements are satisfied. Unfortunately it spills over to my personal life, so poor customer service in something as trivial as picking up take-aways gets to me.

So, starting with initial contact, the lady should be friendly over the phone and listen to what the (potential) client is expecting. Most of us don't just want sex for the sake of having sex. We have a certain need that we want satisfied.

If the (potential) client is asking for something you cannot assist with, then remain friendly. You never know when he may have a diffirent need that you may be able to satisfy. Too often have I called a lady with a request and once it is established that she does not offer what I request she gets blunt for the rest of the call.

I agree with one of the other contributors of this thread that directions to the venue should be clear. Some of us travel out of our areas to visit specific ladies. I visit ladies on business trips often in areas I am not familiar with.

If you agree on a time, be available. If you are going to be late, then let the guy know. I once made an appointment with a lady, drove to the address she gave me and called her at the time of our appointment. Her phone went to voicemail. I waited for 30 minutes and made several calls. Only when I got back home she messaged me that she was running late and that she was ready to see me. I didn't go back and she will never ever see me in the future. Then she had the nerve to demand payment and accused me of wasting her time. Really.

Try and look nice. I visited a girl once and she greeted me at the door in a track suit, hair in a ponytail and no make-up. Personally I didn't care too much, but some guys do expect the girl to at least try and look sexy.

Last, but probably the most important is make your client feel welcome and let him dictate how things go. Nothing spoils the mood more than when a girl obviously tries to get you out the door as quickly as possible or does things to you that you don't like/want or she wants to have things her way.

Examples are: girls going for my nipples. I don't like them sucked or touched, so ask me before trying to. Once a girl tried to stick her finger in my behind. Seriously, not everyone enjoys that, so, also ask before doing it.

Missionary is one of my least favorite positions. The 'rush you out the door' types like getting you undressed as soon as possible then pull you on them in that position. Again, we don't visit girls for the sake of emptying our balls. If we wanted that we could wank or pick up a R20 magosha or, heaven forbid, screw the wife. At least for the dumbasses who got married.

I am always clear about my desires. If a client is not clear, then find out what they do and don't want.

LOL Dinky Toy!!! A magosha you say? Can't even remember when last I heard that word!! Hahahaha!

But yes, you are right. Girls need to answer all questions asked professionally and with respect, even if they don't cater for the specific service.

Thank you for everyone's feedback. xx