Hi ladies and gents,

Some advice would be appreciated, a lady friend with benefits of mine has decided she wants to have a threesome. First prize is to pick up a random but if that fails we are going to get a gorgeous lady from ESA to assist.

I have a few questions for the more experienced in this arena,

1) Do I need to change the condom each time I change girl?

2) What is the implied etiquette with my friend? Do I pay more attention to her?

3) Which girl do I finish with?

I would really appreciate all views from ladies and gents alike

Thank you

Olala....the two of you are in for a treat!

1) YES you change condom. Best to have two different colour condoms, and each lady is assigned a colour, so there is no "confusion" or "mistakes"

2&3) Stop overthinking this. Let it flow. What happens, happens. Just enjoy it as it happens.

Kisses, Mynx

Hi there

Here is my personal opinion

Question 1 - yes you must change condoms everytime. Very risky to not do so

Question 2 - yes she is your lady friend, so she should get a little more attention than the stranger. However keep it balanced, don't want anyone to feel neglected

Question 3 - finish off with your lady friend, unless she decides otherwise

Furthermore forget about these technicalities, except for question 1 and enjoy the mood and fun, go with the flow

Happy punting

Definitely not overthink the whole sernario !!!

What are definitely helping is to discuss beforehand the way that everybody wants to be satisfied .. the do's and dont's !!!

My opinion:

Yes condoms should be changed every time you change a partner,safety comes first.

Make sure all participants are involved,if you focus more on the other then the other one feels left out,just make sure no one feels left out. The energy should be flowing between all three parties. Do not think of many things,permit yourself to fully enjoy the experience but always think of safety.

There should b chemistry between the ladies and they should b into each other to allow u breaks.

Guess what i am saying is that it can turn into hard work if the ladies arnt bisexual.

@Mynx thank you for the different colour idea! Will definitely be doing that

Thank you Ziske I definitely will!

Thank you Boobs, I know what my lady friend likes. We will have to see what the other party says

SexyHumour thank you, safety first always.

@Greyfox you are so correct I definately need to find someone who my lady friend can enjoy to enable max pleasure for all

To the ladies, we are looking at doing this next weekend. Please PM me should you be interested. My lady friend is looking for someone slim and petite as she is too, she would prefer a brunette and a lady who is not shy.

Hopefully it works out!

Hi StickyWicket,

All of the above advice is spot on.

I would like to add that I have seen many couples and I always insist that the gentleman understands that the lady is the boss in the bedroom. Her needs come first if he ever wants her to try it again. Because if the gentleman only thinks of himself, she will most likely never want to try it again. I like to meet with her and chat over a glass of wine before the booking starts. My usual questions to her are...

What is she wanting to experience and take away from the interlude?
What are her rules and boundaries? Most women want to experience a lesbian encounter with their partner watching, not always having him join in.
Some want their partners to join in for a bit of foreplay, eg they don't mind me giving him a blow job or him touching me. But they don't want him going down on me or having penetration with me.
Their are a few and I emphasis a FEW that want their partners to go the whole way. But he must definitely finish with her! She must always be the centre of attention, and the focus must be on her pleasure!

Make sure the rules and boundaries are discussed properly beforehand, respected and adhered to.

Then you can let the rest work itself out in the moment.

Perhaps have a bubble bath together to start. I like to also get the gent to help me massage the lady to help her relax and get comfortable with a little pampering from both of us. It helps form a connection, specially if its her first time and she is nervous.

Mwah

Arz

You lucky bastard !

Safety first and last

Now if it becomes too much for you gimme a call and I'd be honored to oblige. My aim is to please

Best of luck bro

@Arizona thank you for the advice

@mike haha thanks bud I will have you on speed dial

Are there any ladies willing to assist with this? Please pm me

Thank you