On 2018-08-18 11:32:09 Meg said:
The question is will he be happy with me the way I am or is he going to change me into someone he can live with?
Jokes and light banter aside, you raise an interesting question, one that's been raised several times before. My one experience where I sort of got into a semi-serious relationship with a wg (the afore-mentioned stripper) is that yes I will not be happy with her simply as is.
The other question is whats the point of getting married? Why would one even want to do this especially with a prostitute (sorry for using a crude term but I find wg irritating and too euphemistic, still I got nothing but love for whores).
For me her occupation never bothered me when it was still just a transactional relationship even though we enjoyed good chemistry. But once she started viewing me as her man and I viewed her as my girl, then issues of possessiveness and jealousy crept up on both sides. I then went through the phase of trying to convince her to stop doing what she does and find some other source of income. On days when she couldn't be with me, I would get upset over the thought that she's busy pleasuring other men. Then there was the thought that anyone could fuck her, be it my friends, cousins, brothers e.t.c, just dish out a certain amount and she's there for the taking, imagine introducing her as girlfriend to people that possibly intimately familiar with her? I know it's hypocrital and contradictory for me as a punter to be bothered about my partners promiscuity but still I'm not immune to jealousy.
Which brings me to the question again, why would one ever want to get into as serious a relationship as marriage with a prostitute? It just doesnt make sense for me, marriage on it's own is challenging enough without the added burden of what your partner does for a living