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Allow me to explain
Posted: 2019-08-27 12:56:08
Some guys get very rude when I turn them down. Firstly, it's never about race. Someone just told me now its because he is white. Big joke!!!
2ndly, I am very sensitive to the energy or vibe people give off. More often than not THIS is why I turn guys down. My gut instinct is so spot on its mindblowing.
3rdly, your enquiry is for services I don't offer. I am experienced in this industry. I KNOW without a shadow of a doubt what I do or don't like.
4thly, you could just come across as an arse. The way you present yourself in the enquiry is very important. I can smell a timewaster from miles away.
Now put 2& 4 together and this is 80% of the guys I turn down.
I don't turn guys down that often and when I do I have very good reason. I seldom have bookings where I don't have an immediate rapport with my clients.
So to the guy I just turned down you were a combo of 2, 3, 4. I know you read the forum. Maybe this will help you understand.
2ndly, I am very sensitive to the energy or vibe people give off. More often than not THIS is why I turn guys down. My gut instinct is so spot on its mindblowing.
3rdly, your enquiry is for services I don't offer. I am experienced in this industry. I KNOW without a shadow of a doubt what I do or don't like.
4thly, you could just come across as an arse. The way you present yourself in the enquiry is very important. I can smell a timewaster from miles away.
Now put 2& 4 together and this is 80% of the guys I turn down.
I don't turn guys down that often and when I do I have very good reason. I seldom have bookings where I don't have an immediate rapport with my clients.
So to the guy I just turned down you were a combo of 2, 3, 4. I know you read the forum. Maybe this will help you understand.
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