On 2019-09-06 10:13:54 Stoffie69 said:
So here it goes I started dating this girl beginning of the year!all was good then things started to change she started to become very sneaky ,and started lieing three her teeth,but at the same time accusing me of messing around!so did some investigating got all the evendince and what not together!and presented it to her she was shocked but so angry at me?I was the one who calm but heart deeply.she claims she loves me and what's only me and wants to marry me!but the sad thing if you say all those things you need to back it up she is still in the industry!I can't have my woman go out do business come home and expect things are normal I'm not sure if anyone could except that!I really loved her and I have feelings for her,but it's just not rite,it would never work unless time out is taken and she leaves the industry for good and slowly work on the relationship together!sorry I'm just abit confused hope some of it makes sense!enjoy the working everybody

Boss, so are you a punter yourself or not? How did you find out that she is a working girl?

If she is on ESA lemme know. I'll go for a test drive and will let you know if she's a keeper or not

So many ladies are forced to work in the industry because of the financial pressure their parents and siblings put on them.

These beautiful ladies are guilt tripped to pay ridiculous amounts weekly to support hustling fathers, shrewd wicked mother's that marry dead beat men, have children with them and now the daughter is not only pressured to support her step family but also her sisters illegitimate kids.

Before you judge her find out why is she working in the industry, her reasons may give you a eye opener into her family background.

This is just one example. There are so many others.

I would sit her down ask her what will the total income be and can Plz get an allowance to go put as well.

On 2019-09-06 10:13:54 Stoffie69 said:
So here it goes I started dating this girl beginning of the year!all was good then things started to change she started to become very sneaky ,and started lieing three her teeth,but at the same time accusing me of messing around!so did some investigating got all the evendince and what not together!and presented it to her she was shocked but so angry at me?I was the one who calm but heart deeply.she claims she loves me and what's only me and wants to marry me!but the sad thing if you say all those things you need to back it up she is still in the industry!I can't have my woman go out do business come home and expect things are normal I'm not sure if anyone could except that!I really loved her and I have feelings for her,but it's just not rite,it would never work unless time out is taken and she leaves the industry for good and slowly work on the relationship together!sorry I'm just abit confused hope some of it makes sense!enjoy the working everybody

I hear you and while it's easy to joke about it or have no constructive feedback, there are feelings involved. I have experience with this. My post in this thread before, says it all. LEAVE! Never look back. Count your blessings and find another fish in the sea. You will always wonder and doubt her and the trust will never come back. Move on. It gets easier, but DON'T carry on trying to have a relationship. Even if you are ok being a punter while she "works", it never ends well.

If all else fails: pm me her name and I'll let you know if she's worth it ;)

On 2019-09-06 18:09:13 Sultry Indian Jiah said:
So many ladies are forced to work in the industry because of the financial pressure their parents and siblings put on them.

These beautiful ladies are guilt tripped to pay ridiculous amounts weekly to support hustling fathers, shrewd wicked mother's that marry dead beat men, have children with them and now the daughter is not only pressured to support her step family but also her sisters illegitimate kids.

Before you judge her find out why is she working in the industry, her reasons may give you a eye opener into her family background.

This is just one example. There are so many others.

All the WG's and MG's on Esa are adults. They cannot have any excuse if they are doing what they are doing. Their choice!! Excuses are for children.

Best advice is move along. If you presented evidence and she denies it. Clear sign of her character of being a compulsive liar.

It's sad when you find this out, but if you cant financially keep her out of this industry then just say bye.

Reminds me of friend who found out his girlfriend of almost 3 years is a FH girl but maintained to him she is a massage girl. Even with evidence presented. But that's another story.

Unfortunately your trust is broken and can never be repaired.

BTW how did you get all this evidence. A WG and punter at the end of the day can never date. Smoke and mirrors are too big.

Psychologically it effects both parties.