On 2015-04-25 18:58:10 Catherine said:
Not all WG are the same, where they "numb" themselves to a "point", sorry but that's a load of bull if I ever heard one. Either you have that deep connection with each other or you don't. Make it work or just leave it the hell alone an just walk away. And as for that real intimacy it was not all about the sex or the 4 play, it was taking your time to explore each other inch by inch very slowly, touching, tasting, hearing and wanting each other to a point you could just burst

cat i may have been wrong in generalising wg's...apologies

i see wg's on this site go off im horney and wet-???? the thing is in my opinion is that this work you wg's do isnt easy; it tends to eat at one emotionally ...the numbness comes from dealing with this tipe of things on a regular basis...

No apologies needed punkx.
As for im horney and wet, then you should ask those ladies about that..lol
Yes at times our line of work is not easy and yet it is how you handle things, and yes I have seen some wonderful ladies fall apart over the years which is painful to see if you are there friend.
It's never just this industry alone that will eat away at someone it can be a number of things as well.
As for the numbness that comes from dealing with this type of industry, don't believe that for one moment.
No women is made out of steal as I was told some time ago, yet she may put up an "emotional wall" and yet it will take the right man to get those walls to fall after the wrong man got her to build those walls in the first place.

I agree totally with you Catherine.

Re intimacy thats paid for and intimacy on a personal, non WG platform.....they come form different parts of you. Here's an analogy.....a woman breastfeeds her baby. Thats WAY different from her lover sucking her breasts when making love. Same physical action but the idea and response is totally different. I dunno about other ladies, but thats just what i found when i was in a relationship and doing the business at the same time. The intimacy with my then BF was very different to that with a client. And no matter how great my day was sexually, i wanted HIM at night before falling asleep or when i wake up in the morning. And even though i could cum on a booking, very easily in fact, the orgasms with him were somehow...deeper, more meaningful, not necessarily more physically intense, but deeper and more satisfying, if you get my drift. Whereas with a client its all purely physical satisfaction.

It does happen a lot nowadays, but the problem is all the ladies of know they come back to business after 6month or so.

@ Mistress, Correction: Not all ladies return after been Married, I know 9 WG that have not returned at all let alone looked back, and still burnt their client book ( passwords,ref numbers,banking details of advertiser's) Cellphone and simcards, at their farewell party to the user name, so please don't class all ladies as the same for none of us are the same.

Funny enough it's one of the ladies wedding anniversary next month of 12 year's and 2 amazing children.

So yes, if a WG is true to the guy and he can be true to her, I don't see why it can never work.

Funny enough we are always hearing WGs doing the guy in but hardly of the guy breaking the WG emotionally down after she was ready to leave the industry for him.

And what nadia said is very true in the case of a WG in a relationship.

So true Cat. Nobody mentions the dozens of cases we WGs hear about guys who get involved with WGs ladies and after abt 2 or 3 months decide to give up theire jobs and sit waiting for her to do a booking so he can get beer money......I've borne witness to this more times than I can count. or the guy who moves her and her kids to a townhouse she really cannot afford, with the promise he'll movw in with her but je must give r months notice then he'll move in with her. he helps her pay the deposit and 1st months rent. come month 2 he does a disappearing act. Or he and his wife have been separeated for ages and as soon as the divorce is finalised he'll join hee. BTW the final divorce hearing is in the next few months. 3 months later the divorce is still not finalised, out of the blue a woman rocks up at her door....'hello.......I'm Johnny's wife'....'What divorce?.....We haven't filed for divorce'. next thing they've got a restraing order filed against YOU 'cos you're harassing him. And the only reason you've been calling him is to get an explanation. ....all of 3 times.OR after a few months one of you ex~WG buddies bumps into you at the mall and says she's seen him at the venue she works at. Or she got home an hour later frpom her daughter's ballet class thab she should've and she's got the black eye aas proof. Or she gets told daily how thankful she should be~ Remember where I found you, I can send you right back there with just the clothes on your back. ' met jou verlede watter man gaan vir jou wil he?'.
Conveniently everybody forgets that this is what happens to a helluva lot of WGs all the time. I've had to help so many ladies to whom this has happened.Either to find a place to work or stay or with hooking them up with welfare organisations.
So bear that in mind when ladies DO come back.

Sorry abt the typos. I tried to correct it but everytime the whole text disappears.

There will always be a very small number of successful marriages which we can use to ease our consciousness. Therefore we will always use these marriages as our reference and keep our dreams alive.

My advice is you found the wg's here leave them here coz its hard for other punters to accept the reality that she's gone(if you find a punter leave quietly, seek therapy and stop him from watching porn).

This is probably one of the most challenging relationships you can have as both punters and wg's have hurt their partners in some way from time to time

I wish I could just sit and chat with Catherine as she and Nadia seems to have much more than just a service history but experience good enough to counsel any couple seeking a real happy marriage where one was or is a wg.

I happened to fall for a wonderful lovely wg more than half my age and it looks as if she is sincere and honest when she tells me she loved me, but I sometimes wonder because of my age. She on the other side is very sceptical when my female friends still contact me.
How do I know it will work because there is great chemistry. Great feelings and an extremely wonderful time when we are together, but deep inside I wonder if it will last and for how long?