I want my wife to get a massage from another man, while I'm there, probably helping him..
My problem is, how do I approach her into loving the idea..
Do I tell her I want training in sensual massage and take it from there.. Or do someone have better recommendations?

Thank you

I hope you not trying to trick your wife in to a threesome.

This is probably a difficult conversation we all need to have with our wives at some point. We have desires that they do not have. That's why we here after all. Maybe they in to it and we misread them or maybe not. Maybe they will be accommodating, or maybe not. Where does that leave us. How long is a secret life sustainable?

Dont want to trick her into 3some. The guy need to have his clothes on the whole time and we will also set limits before. I don't want it to turn into anything other than him touching her..

Hello JohnDoe23,

I recommend first identifying why you want your wife to get a massage from another male?

If you understand what your core need is, then it will be easier to discuss it.

I see you want to join the masseuse in massaging your wife - do you want to learn more about intimacy and to build a stronger connection with your wife?

Is there a part of you that no longer feels desired by your wife?

You're welcome to drop me a message and we can figure this out together.

I'm a transman yes, but I understand the universal need for intimacy and through my line of work I have managed to assist several others in reconnecting with themselves and their partners.

Plus I'd be able to teach you some tricks of the trade in terms of sensual massage ;) while still keeping my clothes on if that's what you prefer