Ive noticed on a few of my bookings that girls dont mind being fucked hard but they are hesitant to allow fingering. Is this common? I like playing with the honeypot and possibly make the wg squirt. I am also gentle... what gives?

Did you wash your hands between handling the money and touching her?
A lot of clients give you money, then take off their clothes and jump on the bed... Lord knows where those hands have been before he came to me

Some guys go at it as if his hand's a jackhamme. NOT NICE!

Long story short - Our dick is cleaner then our hands

So in other words if we were to wear a latex glove more ladies would let us play???

I don't believe that I think the same as oral and kissing it is alot more intimate and not some hinge a lady would do with everyone???

Some very sexy girls are just uber-sensitive on the clit, to the point of it being painful. Other clits can take a lot of hammering.

Hmmm... Easy does it. A real turn on for me is to give the lady a full body massage, gently teasing her at strategic spots without overdoing it. That of course usually progresses to something more intense. Gives me a semi just thinking of it...

Actually discussed this a while ago with 2 ladies, both of them concurred that they only do it with regulars that they know are willing to go slow and easy and listen to direction...

Both of them said that for the most part the guys are just clueless and think they trying to get the last chip in the packet... You know what I mean. Other complaints include just jamming two of three fingers in without checking if they are lubricated downstairs. Guys not getting their fingernails cut right, leaving those really sharp little edge on the corners which are vicious and scratch the cookie inside. Hands that have been cleaned by mechanics hand wash, they smell terrible and then hands that are full of little cuts and nicks and torn skin.

My advice, before you see the girl... clean your hands and fingernails properly, take a nail file or emery board and give the edges a quick rub and take off any sharp edges...
When you see her, ask... explain your wants, that you will go easy and follow her directions, and that you have done the required maintenance.
Don't simply ask if you can finger-bang her... tell her how you enjoy playing around a ladies yummy bits and all of the above.
She will more then likely give your request due consideration if you play by those rules.