Why would one even care to be anybody else, but oneself?

Has our vision and aspiration become so marred that we ourselves do not know what it means to be an entity......for we are born unique.

How sorrowfully painful be it, when harsh words, misplaced, create chaos in ones mind, breaking down every fibre of self-esteem and self-worth.

Yet how courageous be it to stand before a mirror and like what stares back at one.
The physical imperfections, for even the most "perfect" is not perfect.
The uncertainties and stupidity that flickers in ones eyes at times.
At times a dear price paid for ones arrogance and stubborness.
And then at other times knowing when to back down.
Allowing ones kindness to show, potentially to be at the mercy of abusers.

How courageous is it to allow oneself to be labelled a wg, a mg, and any other name applicable to this wonderful industry.

Yes. Wonderful. For if it were not, then why suffer the abuse and misery that comes with it.

Stand proudly in "oneself".
Here the constructive criticism from those who have your best interest heart.

And those that try break u down with mere words....
Remember......
It is easy being brave behind an avatar.

We are ALL mere mortals and what defines one more than anything else

Is

Oneself.

Xxx.
B.

"Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
I'm schizophrenic
and so am I"

Wow russian bridgette always the poetic one I always enjoy your posts. Its gud to have a individual characteristics but also to install qualites which we deem to upgrade our character. Imagine if we neva had heroes or tried to improve ourselves by hijacking some ones qualities we admire. A saying to improve yahself is to live stop improving and might as well be buried and decay I also believe this saying.

Aaaa.... Kameshang.
I agree with u 100%

Thank u for your very very kind words of appreciation.

Thus as I said....constructive criticism important as is hearing and applying it.

Applying values and standards that raise our wellbeing and conciousness is the pinnacle of reaching the best in "oneself".

Xxx
B.

My dear Octopussy


It is not only your sensuality and physical beauty that I love, but your mind as well. You're also very confident and extremely comfortable with who you are.

I couldn't agree with you more.


xxxx

Greetings Mr Bond

Your words are kind and u pinpoint one of my characteristics of personality as confidence.

One has to be resilient against many a challenge from all walks of life without becoming arrogant.

A lot of challenges in our beautiful crazy world that could snap ones sanity and self esteem.

Yours truly.
Octopussy.
Xxx