On 2024-07-16 21:21:35 jimv said:
PEEVE 1:

Maybe I'm getting old, and have been in the game too long.

Just a note: This applies to ladies who do the 'massage + extras' business model, and not ladies who charge all inclusive FH rates.

So, traditionally said lady would charge X amount for an hour massage, and then Y amount/s for extras. Usually, the extras amounts are significantly less than the X amount for massage.

Since I hate receiving massages (love giving) and prefer getting straight to the action, I will gladly pay the full cost of the higher X amount anyway.

This has never been an issue and most ladies, when saying I don't want a massage, will always charge me either their full massage rate or sometimes add a little extra over their massage rate, which I am happy to pay.

Lately however, especially with the younger ladies, they will insist on full massage rate + the cost of their extras, even when saying a massage isn't what I want. This has happened twice recently so I gently just pass on and stick to my all-inclusive FH ladies.

Like I said, been punting for almost 30 years, never been an issue, but clearly times have changed.

I understand your frustration however a massage provider's standard service is a massage. The fh is an extra.

You cannot go to a massage provider and say you don't want the massage. This is their main service.

They offer the extra, to make extra money. In other words, you may take or leave the extra but not the massage.

This counts for massage venues and private service providers.


It's just a misconception. I am sure there are ladies who would allow this, but it's not the norm.

[QUOTE;4884260;jimv] Pumpkin, nowhere did I mention venues. Not sure how you arrived at that conclusion, please enlighten me.

And I never said I want to cheap out and pay for the lower extras rates only. Read carefully Mr Zuma.

So in simple terms - Using your stupid bareblow analogy, lets say she charges 800 for a massage and 300 extra for a bareblow. Skipping the massage, I would still pay her 800 anyway just for the bareblow (coz it's her time). But paying 1300 just for the bareblow when I don't want a massage makes no business sense.

Like I said, been doing this for years, never had an issue.

And your burger analogy makes absolutely zero sense, in that case I will gladly pay FH + extras coz I'm gona eat the whole thing lol

Why u calling me mr zuma if my name is pumpkineater. Are u a grumpy old man.
Look right on top of a girls profile. It wil either say girl or massage girl. If u go for a the massage girl she wil charge u the massage rate amd if u want fullhouse she wil charge you that rate too. Not as an extra but as a service.
Extras are things out of the norm like blow without a condom

But like u say. U have been pumtimg a long time maybe its time to call it quits.

On 2024-07-17 10:10:08 Jess said:
On 2024-07-16 21:21:35 jimv said: PEEVE 1:

Maybe I'm getting old, and have been in the game too long.

Just a note: This applies to ladies who do the 'massage + extras' business model, and not ladies who charge all inclusive FH rates.

So, traditionally said lady would charge X amount for an hour massage, and then Y amount/s for extras. Usually, the extras amounts are significantly less than the X amount for massage.

Since I hate receiving massages (love giving) and prefer getting straight to the action, I will gladly pay the full cost of the higher X amount anyway.

This has never been an issue and most ladies, when saying I don't want a massage, will always charge me either their full massage rate or sometimes add a little extra over their massage rate, which I am happy to pay.

Lately however, especially with the younger ladies, they will insist on full massage rate + the cost of their extras, even when saying a massage isn't what I want. This has happened twice recently so I gently just pass on and stick to my all-inclusive FH ladies.

Like I said, been punting for almost 30 years, never been an issue, but clearly times have changed.


I understand your frustration however a massage provider's standard service is a massage. The fh is an extra.

You cannot go to a massage provider and say you don't want the massage. This is their main service.

They offer the extra, to make extra money. In other words, you may take or leave the extra but not the massage.

This counts for massage venues and private service providers.


It's just a misconception. I am sure there are ladies who would allow this, but it's not the norm.

There are plenty of ladies offering massage with optional fh who will happily skip the massage. But you are still going to pay for it even if you convert it into a cuddle, make out, foreplay, etc time. The FH is an "extra" after all, not a stand alone. See the massage as a room booking fee or something like that.

I have the opposite issue/peace

MASSAGE girls wanting to skip the massage and just do fh .... Damn