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40+ year old virgin
Posted: 2016-03-30 12:00:14
HI All
I have read about the advice in searching for a recommendations for a first time with a WG, but I would like to throw in another twist into the query.
Strange as it may seem in this world I have not had sex with a woman, with a man yes, and I would like to explore this side of my life a bit. I guess you could say I was bi curious but from the gay side!
Any recommendation then for someone to show me the ropes...so to speak!! MMF remains a fantasy...
I have read about the advice in searching for a recommendations for a first time with a WG, but I would like to throw in another twist into the query.
Strange as it may seem in this world I have not had sex with a woman, with a man yes, and I would like to explore this side of my life a bit. I guess you could say I was bi curious but from the gay side!
Any recommendation then for someone to show me the ropes...so to speak!! MMF remains a fantasy...
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Re: 40+ year old virgin
Posted: 2016-03-30 12:03:36
Sorry I neglected to say I am in Cape Town
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Re: 40+ year old virgin
Posted: 2016-03-30 13:00:50
Why does it have to be with WG. You guys usually have loads of fruit flies hanging around. (Sorry is fruit flies derogatory? Any more derogatory than faghag?)
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Re: 40+ year old virgin
Posted: 2016-03-30 13:02:28
Mmmmm come here I will break you lol
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Re: 40+ year old virgin
Posted: 2016-03-30 13:11:37
@cc40 - Kimmylee in Milnerton may be your best bet. But best you hurry as she is out of CT from early April.
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Re: 40+ year old virgin
Posted: 2016-04-03 17:19:56
ANY of the ladies will be surprisingly understanding and helpful. Just book a full 2hrs, and spend the first hr chatting and getting comfortable. To these ladies, any sex topic is like you talking about sports/biz/whatever you're into. It's all completely normal and easy. Just relax.
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