So I am "blessed" with proper hair-growth on my face, ie a beard. I have a few predicaments regarding this feature on my face:
1. I can only shave every 4/5 days. More frequent shaves results with in-grown hair and pimple-like vulcanoes that takes another few days to resolve.
2. When I shave, I basically have a few hours before the first stubble surfaces. Nit a lot of time to schedule a session given my dairy.
3. I like kissing with the whole GFE going with it, and the ladies enjoy it as well (so I've been told) which is a HUGE turn-on obviously. Seeing a lady not enjoying the kissing part is not so much a turn-on.

A session without proper kissing, with someone who knows the art, is very unfulfilling.

I've only had one lady who doesn't mind the stubble and kissed beyond that, but since most ladies have sensitive skin, the kissing usually doesn't last long.

What is a "blue-beard" then stand to do?
1. Find ladies who doesn't mind the stubble, who does provide an excellent overall experience as well as having the talent of giving sensual kissing?
2. Shave as often as possible, and learn to live with the itching and horrible pimple-like grown-in face?
3.Grow a full beard for nice soft and fluffy hair. No thanks.

Any insights would be appreciated, especially from the ladies who have to actually deal with this.

Ever had a wet shave, I mean given to you by someone who knows his job?
I sometimes do this, and trust me I'm the smoothest afterwards ever, no DIY (wet or dry) comes close! Yeah, the dude massages your mug almost up to you moering him, but that's for a reason you'll have to experience.
Hey, 2c's...

Sounds interesting. I normally do a wet shave myself, but as you say the DIY route is not as smooth.
Where does one go for this "experience"?

You say you shave every 4/5days....so, pack your razor and shave as you arrive at the booking. You will be super smooth and the lady is sure to show her appreciation. The problem with hard stubble is that it scratches our soft skin raw and it is painful. I once had an experience where I was unable to see anyone for days, as my skin was grated off so badly, it formed a scab over my upper lip and chin. So now I also pull back fast if I'm presented with a face covered in stubble. Kisses, Mynx

Thanks Minx, in theory an excellent solution...but SWAMBO is sure to see my badsakkie going with me and shaven on my return home...
I have to add, my stubble have never caused a reaction as you described above. Sounds rough! Some redness for an hour or two though.

Invest in a top of the range Phillips shaver. Money well spent for smooth shave. But Im going to hell for using it according to the chila jamaat guys.

On 2016-04-11 20:53:31 MrShyGuy said:
Where does one go for this "experience"?

Umm.... a barber?
Hairdresser then perhaps, n haarkapper?
;-)

I would suggest the following...
Let your beard grow out a bit, there is normally a point where the stubble becomes softer. That's the length you should keep it trimmed to with a beard trimmer.
Then whenever you shower, simply wash your face as normal and put some conditioner on it to keep soft and smooth.

It sounds contrary but it's a lot better then that razor sharp fresh stubble that feels like velcro when you go for dinner at the Y...

Thanks Deamonza, that sounds like a possible solution! Nithing to lose! I wonder if Buffelsfontein Baard Olie will also help?

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