Obvious age differences are of huge concern to me. If a women looks 50 yet her age on her profile states that she is 40 then I assume that drugs or illness has aged her something fierce and I black list and steer clear. On the other hand, if a women's age seems legit or she looks younger than what her profile states then it's game on.

OK so yes - when you get there. Do you walk away, pay a cancelation fee or go through with the booking?

I go through with the booking and never go back.

ESA should strictly enforce the age restriction. If you are under 21 you cannot advertise. If you are over 30 your age should be verified by ESA

I agree peterb. All photographers should ask for id and put the appropriate age on profile and have it verified by esa. More clients will frequent that lady because her real age has been verified. Not 60 year old saying they are 41....

I generally reach out to other trusted punters who booked or even just saw them at a venue and ask them how old they think they actually look. That's probably the most accurate age we're ever gonna get.

There's profiles here with pics that even look half the age and half the size so trying to make a decision based on the profile alone is probably gonna result in lots of disappointment.

N4P

On 2024-11-04 14:52:52 peterb said:
ESA should strictly enforce the age restriction. If you are under 21 you cannot advertise. If you are over 30 your age should be verified by ESA

I Agree with this.
Or at least ESA should have a page just for age-verified ads.

This would make it easier to go through ads.

I understand why most ladies chose to lie about their age, but shit, man, some are just way off.

Or lastly, at the very least, maybe give advertisers a choice to verify their age within an age range. E.g. 25-30 or 30-35.

Right now, we are dealing with advertising as 30, but the reality is 45+