Punter hygiene always comes up and rightfully so, but I want to raise recent observations in relation to SP hygiene that's been bugging me and if there are other examples please add.

- Firstly the issue of towels. I visited an independent massage lady who is working out of a lodge type set up. And I realised that she only gets a limited amount of towels for her personal use that are provided daily, and I realised that she's probably recycling them between punters. I'm more comfortable at venues because I know they have a lot of towels and they get washed but I also wouldn't put it past some venues in the interest of cutting costs to just hang them to dry and fold neatly. Also as I was lying butt naked on the plinth I then also thought that the towel where your head is is also probably not changed and the thought of my face being where the other guy drooled. I've also noticed at venues that the lady quickly neatens the plinth and take away the towel you've used but not the towels on the plinth. Also I've never seen even at venues that the plinth gets wiped or sanitised where everyone's head goes. At a genuine non-adult spa they change everything and sanitise and clean the plinth between every treatment and the pricing there is much lower and they have more overheads. Why should it be different in this industry? At R900 to R1200 just for a massage (without extras) that should include clean towels for showering, covering the plinth and sanitising critical areas. Even if venues say they do this, I don't believe the girls all actually follow this routine.

- Showering. A wg I saw jumped in the shower after I finished showering and we were chatting. I observed that she basically washed from her tummy down to her privates. And I thought but I was sucking on her tits. So the next guy is going to lick my spit. Not to mention we touched each others privates and then touched other parts of our bodies like when I was gripping her ass and touching her back from behind with the hands I stroked my cock and her pussy with. Thankfully it was an early morning booking and I was her first. But that made me think, surely if you see several clients a day for several weeks and several months and several years, the shower becomes like a quick in and out. I don't know if girls will be having say on average 6 full showers a day (including personal showers) 6 days a week, 24 days a month - that's almost 2000 showers a year. I think most girls do the quick rinse of the front of the body and that's it. And I've observed at venues a lot of girls jump in for about 30 seconds and that's it. I'm sure the guys do the same to give the lady a false sense that they've showered.

Anyway, Im sure I'll be called a germophobe and told I shouldn't be punting but for the kind of money we spend I think we should expect everything on terms of hygiene to be spot on. And with all the stories of guys coming through with cheese dicks, one wants to have comfort their remains are cleaned up.

Dude maybe u werent her first for the day and u were sucking the other guys spit of her tits. And how do u know what or how other guys shower and if the massage beds gets wiped down and cleaned. U only there for a booking. U come u leave.
Here is a shocker for u. Something to think about while u going down on a girl eating her out

Did or didnt she just have raw sex with a client just before you arrived.

Now let that brew a little in ur mind. How is that pussy tasting now my germophobic friend
Wuhahaha!!

I have a handful or two of gentlemen that could all be brothers.

Meaning....the drill that they put me through ,no matter how many times they have been , that speaks to a state of mind that can be quite debilitating.

Most of these gents are ardent regulars.

Never to take offense, never to be impatient or minimize their real concern about hygiene, which they do know is excessive but, cannot help themselves.

Some of the questions I am asked may sounds ridiculous to 95% of people but, germophobia is a real thing.

To me, a huge compliment. ...as is to the surroundings I work in no matter which city I may be in, to have these gents return and return again to indulge in an intimate way they crave but, are fearful to engage in.....because of a phobia.

Speaks to that going of mine that hygiene is PARAMOUNT.

RB.

I have started to add a mutual assisted shower after each of my massage sessions. As I'm very fussy with whom I see, I don't offer showers to everyone. Showering with me is a great way to relax and unwind since showering has been proven to relieve stress. The two of us can build physical intimacy, which differs from sexual intimacy but is equally important. Embracing, helping each other get clean, and talking in close proximity, all while completely naked with nowhere to hide---are all deeply vulnerable activities that can build on existing foundations of trust. I'm very hairy down there. I have not shaved in years so if you are into hairy bushes, I'm the lady for you. After our mutual shower together, come indulge in an application of body butter and some mutual fun. So keep those messages coming guys,,,I don't mind showering 6 times a day as long as we are both having fun.

I like to think we all(punters and Sps) have had decent showers or baths before any appointments. And if we do have a shower again before we start a session its purely for the benifit of peace of mind for both as scrubbing aint needed.

After completing a session I for one will wipe off oils, rince my mouth wash my hands while client is in the shower.. after he leaves i will go have a long shower or bath.

2 reasons for this..


1. You cant leave anyone alone anymore while you having a shower. Way to many girls had money and other valuables stolen by the same punter that just fucked them senseless 5 min ago. Reports of such happening happens almost on a daily.

2. If a punter should maybe watch us do a proper bath or shower afterwards they might not like how unsexy that can be.. and some more sensitive men might even interpret our scrubbing shower/bath as us trying to scrub them off of us, or trying to scrub the "dirty" away rather than just cleaning ourselves, like often shown in movies..and sometimes it might even be true for some ladies and some sessions, but mostly it aint true for most ladies.

We all actually just want to take our time when we shower/bath and doing that while someone is watching your every move and knowing you have to still get dressed and let him out the door is too much of a rush.

We prefer to get you out the door first before we have a shower or bath at leisure;)

@miss red.. well said.

Each session is different, just as each punter or sp is unique.

The fine line is to maintain that air of mystery..

@Lowden. I totally agree.
Don't think one has to be a germefobic to expect clean towels and plinth for starters!
And if professional massage venues can achieve this charging rates of R400/h, then surely in the punting world where rates are much higher, it is fair to expect the same.