In many ways I think there are similarities between male and female orgasms. For men though, and ejaculation kind of spoils the experience. An anti climax maybe. If one can avoid the ejaculations (for a bit) a much deeper or multiple orgasm(s) can be experience. To some extent maybe women have the advantage on this; but definitely can be achieved by men as well.

Personally I don't think these are achievable through traditional penetrative sex, though it can help heighten the senses during foreplay. Note I'm not downplaying the experience of penetrative sexual encounters, however this thread is about the "The BIG O"

Still exploring, these are just some of my experiences. Please share yours as well.

1. Full body: sensations consumes your whole body, either radiating from the pelving region and escaping through the extremities (like waves), or getting trapped in the body causing convulsions (like an epileptic fit). Sometimes uncontrollable laughter (that one's nice and brings additional feeling which only a good laugh and the sharing of immense joy with someone can bring).

2. I call her Alice (from Alice in Wonderland): like a corrupted script where someone deleted the ejaculation code. You get trapped in ecstasy (wonderland) without a way out. Wave after wave of orgasmic bliss rushing over your body, without an end, until you have to force (find) your way out (recoding the ejaculation script in your head or begging the lady to stop). This one is an arm breaker for the lady.

3. Rocket: best way to describe it is like a rocket blasting off into space and then falling back into the atmosphere, being burnt up. Feels like someone poured petrol on you and lit a match. In a nice way of course, not painful but hot. Only experienced it once, so not sure it really exist, or just my imagination. But then all orgasm are in the head, and the lady just uses the penis as a joystick to control/ direct the orgasm.

4. Nuclear: best way to describe it is like a bomb going off inside of you. Occurred during a pegging session, when sensations from my ass and those from my penis merged (normally two different even conflicting feeling) and both became non existence for a bit, and then an explosion from within me, location unknown. Like energy escaping the body. That was probably the most mind blowing experience I've ever had. Also only experienced it once so need to find it again to confirm its existence.

5. Tripping. Well haven't really used substances, but would imagine it be the same. When experiencing pleasure, the body releases it's own stimulants, including endorphins (similar to opiates), oxytocin, dopamine and the mood enhancer serotonin . Usually very short lived as most Os last a minute or two, however if you can achieve a prolonged O as described in 2, you can have the benefits of an extended 'trip' without the after effects of substance use. This is my personal favorite.


Most of it is up to you to open yourself to an orgasm. Normally takes a few sessions with a lady, as these are deeply intimate sessions where you become extremely vulnerable, ie you loose control over bodily function. The lady is important as she needs to be open to taking you on this journey, and not freak out mid way. Had a few ladies tell me 'You better not fucking die on my table/ bed". That would be a good way to go though.

Some credits ...

The ladies who have helped me have these experiences are:

Rachel from Parkhurst. She has a very unique "method" that assist with delaying ejaculation, making multiple Os easy to achieve.

Lisa from Randburg. Pleasure is the name of the game, very easy going, open minded and easy to open up to. Also has a great energy around her.