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Re: Advice Needed: How to get into the swinging scene
Posted: 2025-03-29 08:12:48
If you must, then create a singles profile and accept that the odds are not in your favour. Swinging is a lifestyle, not an event, so be patient. The few clubs that I have been to, do allow a limited number of singles guys to their events so drop your name in the hat and hope for the best.
Do not pay a WG to be your plus one. If you want to experience the true essence of the lifestyle, then do so organically.
On 2025-03-28 18:58:31 Leeu loop said:
So this is really great advice and all. But how do we as single dudes get to experience that kink? Guess that is the real question
If you must, then create a singles profile and accept that the odds are not in your favour. Swinging is a lifestyle, not an event, so be patient. The few clubs that I have been to, do allow a limited number of singles guys to their events so drop your name in the hat and hope for the best.
Do not pay a WG to be your plus one. If you want to experience the true essence of the lifestyle, then do so organically.
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