Hi Purple Community. How to introduce your wife into soft swinging? Any creative ideas or experiences to share? Please PM me. Thanks

You could open up a can of worms that you may not like.... Talk to her about your fantasies,Get a feel for what she thinks about it... Think about an evening at a swingers club where you can get to talk to other people in a safe no pressure environment...... Take it slow...very slow.

I would take the advise from Jotopper, just speak to her.

Have to say, when it comes to swinging, things might go wrong. The couple I've met been on a "seeing other couples only" play plan. Then they switch to seeing singles separately (The lady's idea after spotting all the single men). The lady found a loud of men to 'play' with, including sweet little me. But the gent had a mission to find a lady to kielie.
On the end of the day, the gent lost his wife to someone else.

The conversation with them in the beginning been on how strong their trust and love is. So wrong they were :-) . I'm not into moffie stuff, so the lady came to me. But I've seen him a few times, great guy! However, some other dude didn't respect him as much as I did.

Careful dude, safe swinging :-)

One thing to remember is that it may not be possible to introduce the idea to her. It might simply be a no, never, won't, can't, not interested thing for her.

Jotopper is right, talk to her about your fantasies, talk about her ones also. If you cannot talk openly about these then swinging is a significant way off.

There are few sexual activities that require as much no BS openness, honesty and understanding than swinging. it should not be entered into unless you are both totally on the same page with a relationship that can take handle and dispose of any jealousy or confidence issues without them becoming something that is targeted at your partner.

You're significant other reluctantly goes along with your plan, finds that she loves it, with another guy or guy's she screams with a passion and does things you have never been able to achieve. Can you handle that with confidence?

You're significant other loves the idea but sees you with a lady or lady's that resemble her in no way at all and gets it in to her head that she is no longer what you want in life, that she isn't good enough for you. Would you be able to prove to her that she is wrong?

If you can talk about anything and truly understand each other in a non-judgmental manner then it should not be a difficult topic to explore. But you may end up having to accept that it will only ever be a fantasy.