Even bitches and witches...Kwaaaaaaaaks...gotta love the esa forum...
Just as punters need to respect the girls, the girls need to respect us in return and hopefully we wont be seeing similar threads in the future. Wishful thinking perhaps but one can hope
Edited: 2017-04-27 11:34:02
"The enemy is fear. We think it's hate, but it is fear!"
This was quoted by Gandhi. In my experience, fear also leads to hate or what others perceive as hate. I have always found these topics so sad because after the experiences I had growing up, I can see where everyone is coming from in relation to their experiences. No one is ever right or wrong in this instance as everyone has different circumstances that led them to feel the way they feel. A black person that has had numerous bad encounters with a white person will judge all of us based on the behaviour of that few. On the flip side, white people that have experienced the same Fr black people will judge all of them the same. Maybe it's not always about judging, but rather not giving the next black or white person a chance to do you wrong. Sometimes its more about the fear of those around you that encourages your fear.
That's why I always say that tolerance and an effort to understand the next person's culture, heritage, experiences, upbringing and differences is the only thing that will unite us. We might not change their behaviour, but we can change ours and in doing so, we can change the opinion the next generation will have of our ethnicities and in doing so, we can change the so called racist mindset and behaviour! But as long as this black on white finger pointing is occuring, nobody will ever get over it and move forward without prejudice because you continue to feed it!
Accept peoples choices, whether you perceive racism or not. Same as you would want to have a choice, we all do!
If a white girl chooses to be multi racial or not, why the anger towards her? Because she said you can't fuck her? So you cry racist? All that does is infuriate her and make her even more anti black. What are you changing or accomplishing by humiliating them or making an issue of it? Understand that she has her prejudices for her own reasons stemmed from her fear and experiences, let her be and move on to the next lady. Is it right? No, of coarse not, but the only way to change fear is to show them they have nothing to fear and in doing so, future generations will benefit from the little bit of tolerance you have shown to one person's fear!
Why is this such a difficult concept for people to understand and try to abide by?
Btw, I'm not referring specifically to Paige. She's a hypocrite and someone that said stupid shit to explain her supposed prejudices. But even she has had her own experiences and although not very bright, PC or right, we all need to accept that she is who she is and move along! We are not all like her, but we all have our own reasons for doing what we do the way we do it and no one, not black or white has any right to take away that right or even argue with it. You can't change past experience but what we do presently becomes part of that past that changes a person like her or enforces the ideals or behaviour in her offspring and their offspring!
Edited: 2017-04-27 11:48:32
On 2017-04-27 10:14:23 Climax said:
Hehehehehehe I see the kids were out late last night...
Even bitches and witches...Kwaaaaaaaaks...gotta love the esa forum...
Lmao WORD !!!
On 2017-04-27 11:29:54 Veronica Franco said:
One thing people should try to realize though before lashing out at someone and calling them a racist is this:
"The enemy is fear. We think it's hate, but it is fear!"
This was quoted by Gandhi. In my experience, fear also leads to hate or what others perceive as hate. I have always found these topics so sad because after the experiences I had growing up, I can see where everyone is coming from in relation to their experiences. No one is ever right or wrong in this instance as everyone has different circumstances that led them to feel the way they feel. A black person that has had numerous bad encounters with a white person will judge all of us based on the behaviour of that few. On the flip side, white people that have experienced the same Fr black people will judge all of them the same. Maybe it's not always about judging, but rather not giving the next black or white person a chance to do you wrong. Sometimes its more about the fear of those around you that encourages your fear.
That's why I always say that tolerance and an effort to understand the next person's culture, heritage, experiences, upbringing and differences is the only thing that will unite us. We might not change their behaviour, but we can change ours and in doing so, we can change the opinion the next generation will have of our ethnicities and in doing so, we can change the so called racist mindset and behaviour! But as long as this black on white finger pointing is occuring, nobody will ever get over it and move forward without prejudice because you continue to feed it!
Accept peoples choices, whether you perceive racism or not. Same as you would want to have a choice, we all do!
If a white girl chooses to be multi racial or not, why the anger towards her? Because she said you can't fuck her? So you cry racist? All that does is infuriate her and make her even more anti black. What are you changing or accomplishing by humiliating them or making an issue of it? Understand that she has her prejudices for her own reasons stemmed from her fear and experiences, let her be and move on to the next lady. Is it right? No, of coarse not, but the only way to change fear is to show them they have nothing to fear and in doing so, future generations will benefit from the little bit of tolerance you have shown to one person's fear!
Why is this such a difficult concept for people to understand and try to abide by?
Btw, I'm not referring specifically to Paige. She's a hypocrite and someone that said stupid shit to explain her supposed prejudices. But even she has had her own experiences and although not very bright, PC or right, we all need to accept that she is who she is and move along! We are not all like her, but we all have our own reasons for doing what we do the way we do it and no one, not black or white has any right to take away that right or even argue with it. You can't change past experience but what we do presently becomes part of that past that changes a person like her or enforces the ideals or behaviour in her offspring and their offspring!
Candidate for best post of 2017 right here.
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