I might not agree with Bolla on a lot of things he has said before on the forum, but on this I have to agree.

Let me put it straight upfront, any thing done to a woman against her will or without permission is rape.

Some guys see dirty talk as an invitation to do what they want, they do not think the way 99,9% of other guys do, and that is what Bolla is trying to bring across in his responses.

To accuse been of been the one, that to me is a low blow.

@Bolla unfortunately what you say is true. Not only women like us are in a vulnerable position but every woman who takes a chance on trusting a total stranger and letting him into her home. Sometimes it is not even a total stranger but an known aquintance.

What happened to Chasidy is
attempted rape and sexual assault, irrespective that she is a sex
worker she did not invite this violation upon herself.Females are
reluctant to report sex crimes for the very same reasoning as yours. Men who sexually assault females will never think it is a serious crime because both males and females in society continue to question the actions of the victim and justify the actions of the criminal citing he was seduced or provoked by the female.

This saddens me so much. My wish is for this rapist to be caught and prosecuted. For his family and community to know what he is capable of. How many other woman has he violated?

Firstly Chas I'm really sorry for the horrid ordeal you had to endure. I hope this never happens to you or any other woman ever. Please be more careful in future.

Now this other story that's emerging from Bolla's posts should respectfully be continued on another thread. He makes a little sense but he's probably not articulating it properly. Out of respect for Chas and Meg let's discuss the perils of the seX worker on another thread.

Chas, I am really sorry for what this idiot put you through. Please stay strong and continue being the beautiful person you are.

On 2017-05-09 20:16:28 Chasidy said:
Thank you all for the kind inbox msges and support on here..

I posted on the forum because i want to make sure he reads it as he claims to be a member.

I do post on the forum yes bolla i do and it my business how and what i write.. go search some more .

I bet there are many girls this happens to who keeps quite as they are scared well im not.

Im a wg who sells her body every day i write hardcore stuff but no way did i offer him what he wanted..

I have no beef with bollajie as he clearly has nothing better to do..

Arent u perhaps the doos who done this..

Xxxx

Wow Chas,That last line is a low blow indeed !!! Really below the belt hun.

Just because he doesn't share your views on how things are communicated and points out other instances where you acted in the same manner doesnt deserve a turn like this.

If you dont do critisism well then either bow out or come back with facts but to liberty someone like that just because the two of you have opposing view points is not on.

The inference you made is almost almost tanatmount to crimen injuria. I think (my opinion) a public apology is definately in order.

The nerve of some people...

Chas & Meg, really sorry about what happened to you both. It's never a good thing when this happens. Hope that the both of you have found some calmness in the midst of this.

WRT to the comments.

In life, there will always be many that will support, sympathize and defend you no matter if it has happened before and then you get the few that will kick you when you are down no matter the situation.

To the few that have no feelings towards Chas and Meg and the others that have had the same experience. Catch a wake up!!! Put yourself in their shoes, what if that happened to you? How would you feel/react? If you don't have anything useful to say, shut up.

The ladies in the industry have to market their business. No marketing is no sale. An advertiser has the right to make the community aware off such incidents. If it is swept under carpet, we would get more and more of such incidents occurring.

Punters often get annoyed that ladies don't reply in time to messages, don't answer their phones, and other petty stuff, have you ever considered that they got be going through or recovering from an incident like it.

Don't be paranoid and think that it's a call for attention. The reality is that something dangerous has happened, the last thing these ladies need is the negativity.

Dammit I'm tired of hearing all the kak you ladies have to go through at the hands of some of these animals that cannot be called men.

Ladies all NOW please take Sloanes advice and get the combat self defence training. DO IT NOW!!!

And I want to hear stories here about how you completely fucking annihilated these animals!

Heeeeeeeeee haaaaaawwwwwwww

Thanks to everyone i do appreciate all the feedback and support..

I am blessed that there are so many caring people on the purple site.. i might of over reacted to bolla and i do apologise but could please ask of him to leave myself and meg alone..

Yes what happened to me could of happend to anyone and it has probably but they are scared to speak out.

What happened was scary but im a grown tough cookie nothing gets me down... i will not allow one fool to rob me of my dignity yes judge once again.

I offer PSE NOT LOVE MAKING BUT NO STILL MEANS NO...

WHEN ANYONE WRITES FUCK ME HARD IT DOES NOT MEAN TRY FORCE ME TO HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX WITH you..

Ive heard of a lady being burnt with irons (benoni) did it happen because she wrote she loves dick...

Yet another incident in alberton where a lady had her boobs cut out and carved whore on her back with a knife did she ask for it..

How about a once loved wg whos body was found in brakpan not long ago did she also ask for it as she stared in a xxx video...

So once again if im overstepping boundaries im sorry but as ive said it before and again and ill probably say it over and over again..

My services are hardcore i dont kiss and cuddle in each and every booking..

It doesnt mean i write stuff i dont respect myself as those who have met me out of work will know what i mean..

This is my work i sell a product which is me i market myself in the way i feel works for me thats it when i go home i become me...

Chasidy is a fantasy during work hours only..

I dont dirty talk during a booking unless its asked for.. ive been with many guys who thought they wouldn't handle me yet now they are regulars..

So once again this is an adult site a place where we sell sex... talk dirty and some make love others fuck... thats it when a member on esa tries what the dude tried with me i believe i had the right to post it here for all to see... as he smsed me saying he has posted to...

This will be my last reply on my thread to this guy.

You got away with trying what u did to me just know u wont get away with everyone.

Some might allow u unprotected sex and anal but i wont ... you tried forcing me but u did not get it right i pray that if u try it with another lady she rips ur balls out.

Ill be back at work tomorrow as today i was not feeling well your face stuck in my head.. yet im stronger..

Then id like to say thank u to everyone who called and emailed me im blessed..

To the ladies remember NO MEANS NO ITS OUR BODDIES

KISSES
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