The pay upfront situation I'm talking about, is the one as insistent by the SP. Usually at venues or houses after she walks in by the room you are supposed to conclude the service.

As Zimba says, that it usually spells disaster and in most cases it has on my account. That's where you usually find yourself being rushed to finish. It also kind of make me feel like a cheap skate hence I won't even put in a tip even if the service turned out okay.

I must admit, same as Arz, I never take money upfront. I would like to believe that you want to reward me for a great service at the end of a session.

Having said that, there's been so many scams lately with idiots not paying ladies after the fact, that I'm even doubting my own set of rules.
Ladies asking for money upfront and then the idiot makes as if it's in the car (or some other crap excuse)... never having any intention of paying!

I suppose it goes both ways...trusting your gut feeling.

XOXOXO

It is a general rule to pay before. Ladies who work totally independently, not where there is back-up if needed, have to take money up front. There is no way around it for me.
I have been done in too often. Guys extend the booking and I have no way of knowing if he has the money. Or they left wallet in the car and mysteriously find the waller is not where they left it, etc,etc.
There is still a loophole from a legal point of view if money changes hands before.

On 2017-05-15 22:25:32 Zimba said:
If she requests upfront MOSTLY it spells disaster.

But the flipside, Poppy is right, it depends on the individual (girl).

If I see that we don't click or she doesn't like my sight, I suggest i leave. I even tell her that 'clearly we won't get anywhere....'

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But Poppy, 2 guys as in they were booking a 3-sum with u? So you decided you couldn't handle them or what? What do u mean by 'seeing that i can't make it'?

@Zimba it was not 3sum dear, the problem was my weekend was a bit hectic in JNB n yet I've promised them that I will come to PTA for weekend unfortunately couldn't leave hubbies on this bad weather,,,,, I do 3sum dear that's small water as long as we get well along, I've done it more than 4 times already so yes......

I concur with TosKoppie and MrShyGuy. That way the lady knows straight away I'm not a chancer. Makes for a more relaxed experience. I also agree with Zimba's point. Hence it's best to be one step ahead...

It's kind of like an experience of visiting KFC versus a spur restaurant.
But then again, I guess the cheap skate punters who try to negotiate rates after the service are equally as responsible.

@Bbw Nadia I work by myself and never take anything before, and can truely say I have not had a problem of no or less payment ALSO the reason may be that I tell the clients upfront that I have only 2 rules:'No finger up my arse or no payment then my pistole goes up their hole' No problem

Sorry ladies but whoever tells me to pay upfront I politely decline,turn around and simply leave.
3 years ago I was visiting durban,went to see a lady(1st punt in durbs),booked her for the day gave her 300 USD she said she was gonna give me change,started with the deed but she was complaining about everything and I mean everything,30min down the line I was being chased by her and her nigerian pimp,had to put on my clothes on my way out,spent 6 months without punting then came back with a couple of rules.
Rule No 1: NO UPFRONT PAYMENT