Yes..thats what I mean..HUGE. Things (negative comments) add up.

Many of the ladies come from underprivileged backgrounds and never finished school and never had the means to find a job, yet you all sit on your pedestals expecting them to have impeccable business skills, acumen and a sense of pride in this work. Many were never shown better and many revel in drugs and alcohol for that reason. Yet you expect all of us to be able to just know these things.

I'm by no means disputing that we as human beings do what we deem necessary to survive, but you need to bear in mind that you are bound to leave a trail if you use a platform where people can rate your service.

We are living in an age or era of technology - a reputation built over many years can be destroyed within minutes.

On 2017-06-24 11:14:19 Pseudonyms said:
I'm by no means disputing that we as human beings do what we deem necessary to survive, but you need to bear in mind that you are bound to leave a trail if you use a platform where people can rate your service.

We are living in an age or era of technology - a reputation built over many years can be destroyed within minutes.

Many ladies come from backgrounds of sexual abuse and were treated like shit. Many of those ladies started turning tricks to escape home on the streets at the most formative years of their lives and were only allowed to advertise or work in houses once they came of age. The streets are cruel and most ladies have learnt to hustle, cheat, scam and steal before they get to a website. its about survival for them at any cost, then they try and function on a platform like this and cannot get by any longer, forcing them back onto streets instead of being given guidance and being shown that there is a better way of life. Some haven't even progressed beyond their childhood mentalities and have no idea about good service and keeping someone happy because all they have known is people using them and they learn that their only value is between their legs and nothing more.

The internet has made this industry a tough place to survive in whereas before it was always known as 'the easy way out' these days, its one of the most challenging industries to survive in.

Dear V
After reading your posts in this thread, I am really ashamed of some of the things that I have said and done in the past.
I will remember all that you have said here and make a concerted effort to be better.
I wish you well.
Regards.

@mrsuperduper, beautiful post.

The lady in question's profile is off.
Her post was a definite cry for help. She was at such a low point, clearly, yet she got bashed even further.

Sad...

I hope she reached out to Arizona. We certainly need more ladies like you in this industry, Arz.

The only one that can help Candy is herself. She needs an encouraging support structure of coarse, but its up to her to straighten herself out as relying on other wgs or clients might only serve as a temporary crutch enabling her to continue being disabled in her life instead because we all tend to fall back on old habits when things are made to easy and other people bear our burdens for us. But once she succeeds on her own, it'll give her a sense of independence and pride in herself. It's very hard to face your demons, so learn to dance with them instead!