Yeah I feel y'all ladies , having kids , house to pay , car , insurance ,clothes ,medical aid food , fuel etc is actually a lot of responsibility . Sometimes ,it's really quiet . Of course I have dreams and ambitions, I don't want to do this for the rest of my life but when we pushed against the corner what else can you do ?!I want to study psychology but sometimes even the money here is very little especially for those that don't do full house .