On 2017-09-28 20:20:17 markymarky said:


In a really good booking the fee is for the opening of the door and what happens after that is two people wanting to enjoy each others bodies. And it does happen if the chemistry is right.

Absolutely right man.

I only have one thing to add. She has to be good looking. Obviously in a way that I find attractive.

That and the ability to hold a conversation for a hour is worth my money.

Lekker weekend

On 2017-09-29 13:01:01 1DRAKE1 said:

Absolutely right man.

I only have one thing to add. She has to be good looking. Obviously in a way that I find attractive.

That and the ability to hold a conversation for a hour is worth my money.

Lekker weekend

Yes the ability to hold a conversation is part of the "chemistry" and a pleasant speaking voice is also part of it.

On 2017-09-28 19:16:09 ACatiga said:
I get the impression that the average punter is happy with a BJ and a Shag nowadays.
There are 2 types of punters in my opinion.
1. The guy that cant get a girl to show him interest and then decides to buy the interest, thats all fine, and for him a run of the mill BJ or Shag is heaven.
Then there is No.2.
Where I fit in. I am married, and I can get the norm from my wife and others on the side for free.
What I want is the Porn Star, the girl that loves the freaky stuff. CIM, COF, Swallows, Anal, ATM, MMF, FFM, Golden Showers, Rimming and more.
Why would I pay for something I can get for free, I pay for what I cant get for free, and it seems there are few WG's that cater for all the No.2's out there.

Just my opinion.

This is what happens when boys get their sex education from porn.

I find the subject line a bit uppity. Just because I like vanilla and you like vanilla with caramel coating and a flake, doesn't make your preference superior or my preference mediocre. My orgasms from vanilla is just as intense as yours from PSE.

On 2017-09-29 14:16:21 Swarts said:

This is what happens when boys get their sex education from porn.

Thank you kindly kind sir. The majority of ladies on this site are not porn stars and as a MG I cannot speak for porn stars or WG's but I feel this work is very taxing on ones body and mind and I find this post distasteful and disrespectful to the ladies in this industry who give a lot of themselves to their clients on a daily basis. If acatiga is looking for a porn star experience every booking perhaps he should look specifically for ladies who cater to his every whim....

On 2017-09-28 20:34:02 If Only said:


Give this man a Bells!

Thanks Glad someone thinks the same way as I do.

I agree with Bingoboy and others. I have lots of vanilla chocolate at home, hence why I keep it.

However, it doesn't hurt to have little strawberry or bubblegum once in a while.Helps keep the pencil sharp.

Strangely, punting improves my play at home.

On 2017-09-29 09:50:33 Sibyl said:
Definition of mediocrity:

1. the quality of something that is not very good : the quality or state of being mediocre
2. a person who does not have the special ability to do something well

There are 5 types of people who make use of adult services:

1. Human Connection - Those who are lonely/need someone to talk to/need someone to hold - the desire is not sex in itself, but instead human connection;
2. Pure Stress Relief - Those who want to be spoiled/pampered/unwind - focus is on the therapeutic part of the appointment, with pelvic relief as the safe sex grand finale;
3. GFE - Those with a romantic nature, who want to feel special/loved/passion/kissed deeply - focus is on lovemaking as opposed to fucking;
4. PSE - Those who want to explore fantasies and give life to pure lust, without being judged for their kinks - focus is on hard core sexual acts;
5. BDSM - Those who want to explore BDSM , without being judged for their kinks - focus is on physical and/or mental control with sexual relief being the grand finale, if granted to them;

Not all service providers cater for all 5 types of clients. Most only cater for 1 or maybe 2 types of clients. To see those service providers who do not cater to your requirements as offering a mediocre service, is a bit skewed imo. Ditto for seeing clients who do not share your requirements, as having settled for mediocre service.

In Conclusion you can only experience mediocrity if:

1.You have blindly booked a service provider in the hopes that once in the bedroom she will cater for your requirements,without telling her BEFORE making the appointment what your requirements are;
2.She falsely advertised that she caters for the client type that you are AND she verbalized this to you on the phone BEFORE the appointment, and then does not deliver said services;

Remedy to avoid Mediocrity:

ONLY book ladies who DEFINITELY offer what you are looking for...

Great post Sybil, No.3 in my mind is the most insincere form of punting, both from a punter and service provider perspective.

On 2017-09-30 13:45:18 flyingwild said:

Great post Sybil, No.3 in my mind is the most insincere form of punting, both from a punter and service provider perspective.

I understand what you are getting at, but I would not go as far as saying that it is an insincere form of punting, because ultimately you have 2 consenting adults who understand that the moment shared, although very intimate and passionate, is void of emotional involvement.

Making love to a person, be it a one night stand or with a lady in this industry, does not mean that you are an insincere person or that the act in itself is insincere. Equally if the lady enjoys lovemaking as opposed to fucking, it does not mean that she or the service she renders, is insincere.

The act can only be deemed insincere, if either of the parties bring fake emotions into play, meaning tell each other that they love the person when it is not true or that the person is special and they only ever make love to that 1 specific person, when it is not true.