@ Mikayla

Thanks for sharing that! Personally, I think your list is more than reasonable:)
Again, there's significant overlap in areas that make the experience great for both sides.
I really, really like your approach of understanding the client before they arrive- learning each others likes and dislikes takes time, which in this context isn't really practical so it's a great way to communicate, understand boundaries and get to know desires :)

@Taps

I agree fully. The best SP I've experienced are the ones who create that fantasy as an interested party taking pride in ensuring Im satisfied as well as getting their own pleasure. It doesn't have to be a one way street. Lol

On 2024-03-21 12:43:07 ~Taps~ said:
To kick things off: I like someone easy to contact- telephone and message options; replies in a reasonable time.. I give it an hour or so because I really don't enjoy when the lady uses her phone during our session... unless it's to change to music *wink*; I like a friendly and flirtatious lady whose replies are informative and professional still...

Some ladies have 90 minutes and two hour sessions and Don't take their phones into the room at all because it's not fair to the client who paid for his time.

On 2024-03-21 20:20:46 ~Taps~ said:
@ Mikayla

Thanks for sharing that! Personally, I think your list is more than reasonable:)
Again, there's significant overlap in areas that make the experience great for both sides.
I really, really like your approach of understanding the client before they arrive- learning each others likes and dislikes takes time, which in this context isn't really practical so it's a great way to communicate, understand boundaries and get to know desires :)

While we as service provider practice patience and always go the extra mile to ensure that my clients are well treated from the first initial contact, one needs to remember that there's a thins line between am enquiry and wanking... When enquiring with service providers. Also respect for a ladies down time some guys are pushy like yesterday some dude actually had the audacity to leave him on call so he could hear my next session when I clearly advertise privacy and discretion is guaranteed. The same guy the night before was adamant I send him videos after I told him I am home with kids I can tend to him the next day refused no for a answer. The entitlement of some people mxm.

Foreplay starts long before we you naked together on the bed.

I do realise its not always possible, but some flirty banter, (via whatsapp / pm / sms / on the forum), before arriving at the "venue" does go along way in setting the tone for a session.

Never forget our minds are the most powerful sex organ we have, stimulate the mind sexually and pleasing the body is a given.

@Arhwen

That's a terrible experience and he certainly way overstepped boundaries. I'm sorry to hear that.

It brings up an interesting point, I imagine the service provided by a lady can be tapered by these kind of experiences. Makes it difficult to not be a bit guarded I'd imagine... do you find this to be the case?

@Kooni

100% with you on that... our minds indeed are our biggest sex organs... despite the tales us gents like to tell