Had a very interesting conversation with a very regular punter this morning.

Do you guys feel a bit snubbed if a lady does not ask if you married/involved/single or your real name or how many children you have ect?

This is not the first time that someone hinted that they would have liked me to ask them more personal things about themselves.

I generally don't ask those things. I have this believe that if someone wants you to know something about then they will tell you, you won't need to ask.

Does it mean I am not interested, hell no.. I would like to know your name and stop calling you by your punters name;)

Do I want to know if you married or envolved or single not really it has nothing to do with me, do I need to know of you have kids, no. Do I need to know your political views or religion, you hobbies or pet peeves.,no I don't.

But when someone volunteers this kind if info it is great and I would gaurd it with my life, because it is another level of intimacy that does not come from pure sexual attraction.

It is amazingly sweet when a guy shows me photos of his new grandchild or the the new rose he bought for the rose garden or a silly photo taken with friends. It makes for amazing conversations and gives me a little bit of insight into the person behind the cock and I appreciate the level of trust you have in me.

But I won't be the one probing and poking for you to open up and tell me these things.

Please never mistake my not asking as a lack of interest, it is just me trying to respect your life outside our brief meetings.;)

An interesting topic.
I don't ask personal questions anymore. My reasoning is a bit different. I found guys were just dumping all their stories on me and being an empath I couldn't deal with all the negative energy. Also most weren't telling the truth anyway. After reading up on empaths I now don't ask and I sometimes even shut down a part of me because we engage in such an intimate and personal level. It's also part of the reason I don't look guys in the eye while making love to them. One guy thought I go into a trance cos it's as if I lose myself in the moment.
I have found the guys I have the best time with don't want to engage on such a personal level.
It will be interesting to hear what the punters think.

I don't mind casual interest but I am way boring - no wife, no gf, no intention of ever changing either of those things. If I had a wife / gf I wouldn't be punting in the first place. But when I go to a provider I am looking for, and paying for, sex - not love or romance. As the saying goes - you never pay an escort for sex - you pay her to leave after you're done having sex.

I dont like it.and when asked, I am in any case going to (at least partly)lie, to protect my identity.
But, if i share a work story with you, or something in my personal life, then i really like it when on a follow up visit, the SP asks about it. Its human, it shows you are interested in my life.

I dont mind. If you wanne ask,feel free. If you dont, also fine.
If I feel conected to you and considering more bookings I am gonna ask you some questions.

But maybe I must start lying about my married status. It seems if you are available you get better services by some ladies.

On 2021-11-16 13:20:47 Vrik said:
I dont like it.and when asked, I am in any case going to (at least partly)lie, to protect my identity.
But, if i share a work story with you, or something in my personal life, then i really like it when on a follow up visit, the SP asks about it. Its human, it shows you are interested in my life.

You see that seems very natural to me;) and you it is very human.

On 2021-11-16 13:49:24 EvilAngel said:
I dont mind. If you wanne ask,feel free. If you dont, also fine.
If I feel conected to you and considering more bookings I am gonna ask you some questions.

But maybe I must start lying about my married status. It seems if you are available you get better services by some ladies.

Lol.. that is so not true.. well don't think it is... ;) I don't think SPs make distinctions as to what kind of service is given based on repationship status;)

Lol.. that is so not true.. well don't think it is... ;) I don't think SPs make distinctions as to what kind of service is given based on repationship status;) [/QUOTE]

Thats why I say some. I visit this one lady. She never ask about my status. The first visit was very good. 2nd visit much better. She talk to me on whatsup and was very friendly. Just before the 3rd booking start, she asked if Im married. I said yes. Wel the booking was not like the first two. Okay maybe she had not a good day, I book a 4th booking. That was even worst. I got the Idee she just want to get the session over.
Never less it was her choice and I never book her again.

Pet peeves might be important to know, and will share what I think could enhance the experience either then or in future session

I personally love to conect with my clients in what ever topic might interest them. My regulars love my interaction memory on what they told me and follow up on our next session. They find a connection and enjoy it.

However I can quickly read if somebody does not want to share at that fine by me too.

I'm a life coach as well and it comes in very handy during sessions.

Just my experience.