Has anyone seen a wg or even wguy who became a friend but u watch them suffer in silence and wanna ease their burden and spoil kids who she helping look after which aren't even hers. Ulle do your part but everyone deserves to spend Xmas and new year with a few extras knowing people care.Who would be willing to do this?,and advise on how to do anonymously.

I have a regular that i see and have thought about this as well. What i thought could be nice is a personal gift for themself and then money for them to spoil their kids.

When it comes to kids it definitely tugs at ones heart strings when you have a bit of a disposable income to help.

I think if you are friends after sometime and are in a position to help one should just do it and not expect anything in return obviously but being able to do it anonymously could be a task unless you have banking details and just do a payment out the blue with no reference to yourself.

Perhaps someone with more experience in these things could give advice?

Anonymously.. not easy to do. Especially with wgs they eventually figure out or instinctively know who it came from
Most just prefer not to know things because it makes it easier to keep things professional.

My advise just give the gift and make sure that she understands it has no strings attached and it is because you value her as a human not just a wg.

That said guard yourself from attaching strings unconsciously to the gift. The male species are inclined to want reciprocation when they do things.

On 2023-11-16 06:26:36 Asmodeus_28 said:
I have a regular that i see and have thought about this as well. What i thought could be nice is a personal gift for themself and then money for them to spoil their kids.

When it comes to kids it definitely tugs at ones heart strings when you have a bit of a disposable income to help.

I think if you are friends after sometime and are in a position to help one should just do it and not expect anything in return obviously but being able to do it anonymously could be a task unless you have banking details and just do a payment out the blue with no reference to yourself.

Perhaps someone with more experience in these things could give advice?

With Ewallet no banking details required, and you can stay anonomous.

Some people really have things difficult. Sad that theirs people or companies that have lots but do nothing for society or to upgrade it. Or some that do and don't acknowledge a joint venture. U guys so right about kids I remember one Xmas two years back where she took her last R500 got a Xmas tree for her niece and nephew,mom and some things for Xmas to create that vibe. I did my small part too. Hope this Xmas we all do as much as we can.

To prevent it the temptations of helping someone,then enjoying ego feeling good when she says it oooh thank you ji,tussi great ho ji and all that,plus you can try it to convince yourself that next time you do the booking you do not expect extra special treating but secretly you hoping she give you extra the 30 minutes or anal or joy event in her mouth or something,kyun ki hum mardo sab harraami hai,yaaaa!

And is in our nature to be like this.

So do helping anonymous strictly and forget about it.

This is best way of helping another human,no T'cs and C's.

Actually ,I am thinking this is purer form of love,and we all capables of practicing this every day,not only Happy New Year time.

What you think?
You can do?