On 2024-10-12 22:06:16 Russian Bridgitte said:
Confidence.



Pressures to meet fickle demands society places on one makes it no easier especially if one is questioning of self.

Confidence is not a thing one can pull out of a hat like a rabbit, a magic trick, if one feels it is lacking.

There are those that make one feel more comfortable with oneself than others....and the more time one spends with such people, the greater the probability you will gain "self worth" and shine without worrying about the "lack" of "confidence"... that comfortable self awareness and acceptance of what one deems one's own shortcomings.


One can be a leader, a successful entrepreneur, confident in business but, socially...awkward. ...as you said.


Not all of us a made the same way.


And that is perfectly fine. The integrity of being oneself without pretense.

I am something like you yet, here I am in a space where one would imagine there should be no lack of confidence.

It is called being human and to never lose touch with that part of oneself.

I like the socially awkward...maybe because I consider myself one...?

Smile and know there are many who will find you extremely endearing.

RB.

On 2024-10-14 22:04:15 GTR9000 said:
You right the wacky fun people left my life years ago.. now it is all serious wannabe " im so rich" pretencious idiots that roam the earth. I am need of a pep up.. but loniliness is a bummer at times. Dont ever be fooled by smile or a loud voice.. deep down something makes us all regret ans sad