So I have never been to a club before and I've seriously considered going, the nearest to me I'd say is club Privilege in Hatfield but I'm open to others.

Can someone who's been to the clubs tell me what it's like, what's the atmosphere like, are people open minded?

Whatso the concensus like regarding race and age?

I don't want to go and feel unwanted. So someone be so kind as to run me through how it really is inside

What kind of club, Lilly? A swingers club?

Yes a swingers club

I frequent Rome and Amsterdam and Poison. People tend to stay in cliques. My advice...
Don't go alone
The craziness starts at about midnight so don't be too hasty
Don't expect a free for all
Expect a few dodgy people and read their intentions well
Making friends is easier than making fuck friends
The boys are always game, the ladies not so much

I should be partying next Saturday with my partner but we haven't yet decided which club

Feel free to pm me if you need more information.