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Re: What would be the best way
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Posted: 2018-10-24 21:26:20

Hi Nadia,

Just tell the guy. If I were him I'd want to hear it directly from you. There are other SPs around who he could call.
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Posted: 2018-10-24 22:14:43

On 2018-10-24 20:52:47 Sia said:
This is very difficult to deal with.i told one of my regular,i can't see him anymore. The reason i said that.he was trying to get free beez.i don't do that.he said i use to bring u food n take u out to dinner.now u think u better. I will show u.i laugh out loud.He was pissed him off.he knew a little bit about my life.biggest mistake of my life.he post a ugly comment all lies.he even mantion my son,wrote my really name on the comment.a day later someone close to the family ask me,he ask me about my surname .he said u n zukiswa are related.zukiswa not a really name.as i can't really put her name here.i deny it.i made sure he doesn't suspect a thing about me. we got something in our body that is a mark,for our family.i really hate it.bt i can't do nothing about it.as for the client.i still get ugly emails even now.he changed emails n names every time.he calls me anytime.i ask esa to remove the comment,it was too late.the guy who ask me about zukiswa n surname he is my brother inlaw.bt not in my home,relatives relative's who is from another country .its not easy.



Your case was not difficult, there is a reason you didn't want to see the guy anymore.
The guy in question here has done nothing wrong, he is just rejected because there is no connection and l once heard ladies say "you cannot connect with everyone" but never said you reject the ones you do not connect with.
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Posted: 2018-10-25 07:07:51

Be Honest, thats would be the best..nice and easy...
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Posted: 2018-10-25 08:43:59
Edited: 2018-10-25 08:44:39

Thanks everybody.
So he started whatsapping me during the night after I had switched off my phone.... several messages asking why I don't reply.....at 23h00? And all of a sudden I knew why I couldn't click with him. I have an awesome gut instinct.
So this morning I just replied that I don't think I'm the lady for him and promptly blocked him. No further explanation needed.
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Posted: 2018-10-25 08:51:28

On 2018-10-24 22:14:43 Sandon said:


Your case was not difficult, there is a reason you didn't want to see the guy anymore.
The guy in question here has done nothing wrong, he is just rejected because there is no connection and l once heard ladies say "you cannot connect with everyone" but never said you reject the ones you do not connect with.



The disconnect was just so strong Normally I wouldn't reject somebody because we didn't connect. You really have to pee me off before I refuse a follow up booking. And turnns out my instincts were right; I just couldn't put my finger on what was wrong.
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Posted: 2018-10-25 08:51:42

That is the way Nads, play open cards and leave the hidden agendas for the politicians and the she-males :)
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Posted: 2018-10-25 22:38:51

On 2018-10-25 08:43:59 Bbw Nadia said:
Thanks everybody.
So he started whatsapping me during the night after I had switched off my phone.... several messages asking why I don't reply.....at 23h00? And all of a sudden I knew why I couldn't click with him. I have an awesome gut instinct.




Way to go Nadia!

Your gut instinct is scary. It's like you are like that Farmer hero See'er from Rensmountain. Like you were born with a helmet and can "see things".

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