There are many ladies out there that have been hurt, just like gents have been hurt. When you are hurt, you usually (not in all cases), use someone as a stepping stone. To take away the hurt and then when you ready to meet someone you leave thzt person after finding that is not what you want in life.

I think ladies use that "restriction" to protect themselves from getting used in the past. We are all individuals with different ideas and we react to different situations in different ways.

I am not saying it is the right or wrong route to follow, but that is my opinion.

Lady Sade