If he does expose you, it will be difficult at first not knowing how people will respond, but even so, you will feel relief and that a big burden is off your shoulders. It also helps you deal with self criticism because the guilt of deception is no longer there! It's not ideal, but there are silver linings! You become self empowered!

On 2018-05-15 14:50:16 Veronica Franco said:
If he does expose you, it will be difficult at first not knowing how people will respond, but even so, you will feel relief and that a big burden is off your shoulders. It also helps you deal with self criticism because the guilt of deception is no longer there! It's not ideal, but there are silver linings! You become self empowered!

Thank Ms VF

Yes I agree and I appreciate everyone's kind words.

I would also like to apologise to people that did try and call but I was to sceptical to take calls. I am back on track.

Mia, you already standing up to this MOTHERFUCKER.

The thing that I don't understand is why do WGs get worried when an acquaintance come along to threaten you. I mean you can literally turn the tables and the MOTHERFUCKER that you will also then tell his wife/girlfriend/kids/family/boss/colleagues/priest that he pays for sex?

On 2018-05-15 14:50:16 Veronica Franco said:
If he does expose you, it will be difficult at first not knowing how people will respond, but even so, you will feel relief and that a big burden is off your shoulders. It also helps you deal with self criticism because the guilt of deception is no longer there! It's not ideal, but there are silver linings! You become self empowered!

WISE WORDS! xxx

On 2018-05-15 15:01:57 Burfi said:
Mia, you already standing up to this MOTHERFUCKER.

The thing that I don't understand is why do WGs get worried when an acquaintance come along to threaten you. I mean you can literally turn the tables and the MOTHERFUCKER that you will also then tell his wife/girlfriend/kids/family/boss/colleagues/priest that he pays for sex?

If he hasn't got a partner, whst does it matter? Furthermore, ladies either panic and give in or stand up and face it! Glad Mia has chosen to fight!

On 2018-05-15 15:06:37 Veronica Franco said:


If he hasn't got a partner, whst does it matter?

Becoz bullies are almost always cowards. Even if he hast gots a partner, he wouldn't want "people" to think he pays for sex?

It's about time......

You see Mia karma will teach that blackmailer a lesson he will never forget. You be strong keep your head high, you are a good mother and your kids know it irrespective of your job description.

Welcome back Mia. !

He does have a partner who is a very close family member of mine. He is also is involved in that apartment scam as it was his friend. This is how this all came to the boil with him threatening to tell my family.

On 2018-05-15 15:23:19 Voluptuous Scarlet said:
He does have a partner who is a very close family member of mine. He is also is involved in that apartment scam as it was his friend. This is how this all came to the boil with him threatening to tell my family.

FUCK HIM! PROUD OF YOU MIA! What I would suggest is that you call a family gathering and tell them all yourself! It's worse if he does it and if he has this over your head if he doesn't. You will constantly live in fear and anticipation of his threats! Taking away his ammunition and power over you is the only way to end this!

This is exactly the reason that I decided to show my face and inform all my friends and family. I removed the sword above my head. Lost 2friends, which Im grateful for, cause they showed me their true colours. I literrally told my mother like this: "Mom, you have watched men fuck me over my whole life. NOW they pay for the priviledge". My kids love me all the same, and as a matter of fact, it opened doors of communication to them that I otherwise would not have had. When we face the thing we fear, we can turn it into our power. I double scored, as I get more business from showing my face. And none of the opinionated people pay my bills or have felt my pain, so they can all go fuck themselves. Or, off course, pay my fee and spend a blissful hour with me lmao.
You will see Scarlet/Mia, that standing up for yourself is the best thing you EVER did for yourself. Im really proud of you. Kisses, Mynx