There are some providers who provide a service. I book, I enjoy (or not) and leave. I hope they enjoyed the session beyond the fee, for all the reasons Jiah, Arizona and Cimax mentioned. However, I don't really care.

It is only when you start seeing someone regularly that you can sometimes feel a connection. Not a soul connection - but a fuck buddy connection or a friend connection.

Then I truly feel I am paying for her time and not for a service.

I used to be a consultant, charging by the hour too. With some clients I cared about the hours I billed; with others I cared about the result. That care did not usually translate into discounts, however I would not always charge every minute but rather bill based on results achieved (sometimes even higher than my hourly rate if I managed a great result).

I have found some ladies with whom I feel that way. I feel privileged, but don't take it for granted. They have a business to run and bills to pay and I have to respect that.

If you don't pay her fee, then she will not be able to continue giving you the amazing time you just had! If you haggle her rates then she may as well get an office job and she will never blow you again!

One example: I had an early booking with just such a lady. I paid (above her rate, as we usually go over time and she is like L'Oreal, worth it). I have a meeting afterwards, she has the complex handyman coming to do repairs and there is a time limit. We are having a great time, but the time catches up with us and I need to shower and leave without "finishing". I am ok with that, but she is not! She messages me during the day asking me to please stop off on my way home from work as I forgot something! I check my pockets and I can't work out what I could have forgotten? I get there and she tells me I forgot my orgasm, which she proceeds to "return" to me in the most exquisite way. I try pay her and she refuses my money.

That is a connection! I know she fucks for a living! She knows I see other ladies. We know of our lives outside this business. But when we are together, we enjoy our time together. Then I leave. Our lives continue!

On 2018-05-01 11:32:24 Climax said:
I first like you because you agreed to my fee and didn't disrespect me with negotiating...

Secondly a beautiful mind on a man is the best thing that money can't buy...

If you manage to keep me smiling even on text, I bet you, I'll fuck your brains out...

There are girls who can't bring themselves to enjoy a session with a punter and will never spark a conversation as they think all that guys are looking for is penetration, I've changed rules as the "no cumming with a client it must be reserved for my partner" didn't work for me...

"No kissing was changed as well" how the hell am I gonna get turned on?


But then at the end of the day I'm not your girlfriend so my soul, deep feelings are reserved for that special person...

I have punters that I have told not to book me anymore for different reasons, either we didn't click mentally or sensually, or he's just plain arrogant, and no SP appreciates that...

@Nawwtyguy I assume it wasnt just one girl that pretended to "enjoy" your company otherwise what's the point to this post?

Are you sure you're not the problem?

No lol I always tell the girl after a session well mostly on the first encounter was there anything I did that you didn't like please do tell so I can correct that in the future.

She enjoys your company when she walks out of that shop carrying that expensive pair of shoes she's been eyeing for a while....

A clear sign that she has enjoyed the session is

If you had to pull the sheets from her ass after giving her some oral.

Or inviting you back without any cost involved !!!

In my experiences ive had sexual connections with most of my regulars...we do go over the time limit that he paid for but it does not bother me much because im having fun and its cash well earned.I also get excited when i see its him calling me because i know im in for a treat...it is also easy to give discounts because you know what to expect...chemistry is important if you want to have a good time.he too feels good when he knows that you enjoy him back...

On 2018-05-03 14:50:09 Maxine said:
.. chemistry is important if you want to have a good time.he too feels good when he knows that you enjoy him back...

True indeed !!!

She will be spontaneous, and flirty, and she will show you unexpected glimpses of herself. Kisses, Mynx

On 2018-05-03 15:41:07 Mynx said:
She will be spontaneous, and flirty, and she will show you unexpected glimpses of herself. Kisses, Mynx

Thats what make a great and unbelievable session.

People respond base on the way they are treated. Treat her with respect, and she will return the favour.

Treatt her like hired labour, and you will regret the punt for the rest of your life.

Every once in a while you just know. The session flows and everything just comes naturally. After a few hours you both realize the time and just laugh at how time sped by. But all sessions cannot be like that...like the ladies say empty your nuts have fun and move on. When that special session arrives, well enjoy to the fullest or uhhm emptiest..