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On 2018-04-20 08:54:19 zeltonb said:
On 2018-04-19 03:09:36 Veronica Franco said: On 2018-04-19 00:02:03 zeltonb said: Ladies I was just wondering do you have any trust issues towards men outside of your work knowing how frequently men step out on their partners and wives.
I have trust issues with men and women...people are all assholes regardless of sex! Makes life very difficult for those genuinely interested in me. I have learnt to see through all kinds of bullshit!
So would I be correct in assuming that this line of work generally creates a level of distrust of men. Simply because through experience alot of the guys are in relationships or married yet still seeks gratification elsewhere?
Not really this line of work...every person has their own story and it doesn't make me distrust either men or women, unless it affects me directly. You see infidelity and lies in everyday life. My parents and family history convinced me from a young age that marriage wasn't for me. I decided that before I was 10, so this industry was nothing new.
On 2018-04-19 02:55:41 Kitty said:
Personally , I would rather catch my guy with an escort than say... the secretary or female friend. With an escort I know its mainly about money while someone else there is more likely an emotional investment and a good chance leading to a breakup
Powerful
Edited: 2018-04-20 21:03:00
On 2018-04-20 20:42:51 just horney said:
On 2018-04-19 02:55:41 Kitty said: Personally , I would rather catch my guy with an escort than say... the secretary or female friend. With an escort I know its mainly about money while someone else there is more likely an emotional investment and a good chance leading to a breakup
Powerful
Many guys leave their partners for an escort...all have the possibility of destroying a relationship and in a mutually monogamous relationship, betrayal is betrayal regardless of who you cheat with....and saying that you would rather catch your partner with an escort etc...does that mean you would want him back? I'd rather find out he's gay because if he cheated on me with any other woman, it means I'm not enough for him. Wouldn't want him back at all!
I have open relationships, but thats how i would feel if I believed in monogamy. Hell, my ex cheated on me and he had permission to sleep with whomever he wanted...as long as he made me aware of his choice. Told me that he decided to be faithful and cheated on me anyway...go figure.
Edited: 2018-04-21 05:08:25
On 2018-04-20 20:57:01 Veronica Franco said:
On 2018-04-20 20:42:51 just horney said: On 2018-04-19 02:55:41 Kitty said: Personally , I would rather catch my guy with an escort than say... the secretary or female friend. With an escort I know its mainly about money while someone else there is more likely an emotional investment and a good chance leading to a breakup
Powerful
Many guys leave their partners for an escort...all have the possibility of destroying a relationship and in a mutually monogamous relationship, betrayal is betrayal regardless of who you cheat with....and saying that you would rather catch your partner with an escort etc...does that mean you would want him back? I'd rather find out he's gay because if he cheated on me with any other woman, it means I'm not enough for him. Wouldn't want him back at all!
I have open relationships, but thats how i would feel if I believed in monogamy. Hell, my ex cheated on me and he had permission to sleep with whomever he wanted...as long as he made me aware of his choice. Told me that he decided to be faithful and cheated on me anyway...go figure.
I think this post by Piper sums up exactly what Miss Franco is saying.
QUOTE;1153094;Piper] On 2018-04-20 09:40:47 Arhwen said: Love them all but trust non/God (If you are a believer). This is my motto.
As a veteran WG I've herd it and seen it all so my motto works for me.
The gospel truth :) I also live by that motto. People are imperfect creatures, always leave room for disappointment.[/QUOTE]
I once dated a man we had a open relationship everyone believed that this man was the one myself included a year later I found out the man was married and stringing me along ;)
Insecurity has nothing to do with trust. Betrayal if trust however has everything to do with people not trusting. From where I stand it's a huge difference this is speaking as someone that takes her willing partners to swingers clubs.
Sybl has stated that we don't own anyone sadly their are guys that think they own us. Currently I have a friend in a abusive relationship she can't go anywhere not even to her family or have friends etc.... I don't know about everyone else but this too causes distrust in people like me.
Does it affect all my personal relationships no it doesn't yet I can still be weary of people.
Trust is earned and not just given ;)
But that's just me I guess my mindset is different much like my experiences and stuff I have witnessed in my life.
Is it safe to say that it hardened me and open up my views on life in general? (A make believe world with fantasties,but still the emotions involved are real).
Yes I DO have trust issues.
I questions every person motives who i come in contact with.
Every person who walks through your life is there to teach you something.
Like they say...a lie is beter excepted then the honest truth.
I would rather people be honest with me then tri and sugar coat shit.
Kisses, Mynx
On 2018-04-21 10:50:50 Mynx said:
I trust everybody to BE EXACTLY who they are, what their actions say they are, as opposed to their words. And I trust how I FEEL around somebody. When somebody shows you who they are, believe them . Don't try and make excuses for their behaviour or see in them what you WANT to see.
Kisses, Mynx
Always spiritually in tune with your surroundings Mynx...you've come so far in your journey!
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