Whoever you decide to go to, do your research first. I have wasted a fortune and a huge amount of time with loads of rub-and-tug girls who claim to offer Tantric massage. There is a world of difference between an uninformed body-rub and the slow, gentle, esoteric awakening of your whole erotic body which a genuine Tantric practitioner will bring about. Some of my very best experiences have not resulted in ejaculation but have held me in a state of extremely high arousal where I was literally panting at the intense sensations I was experiencing.
Most of the genuinely authentic practitioners you are looking for will not be found on forums such as this or on escort sites. Searching for them via schools or groups which offer teaching about Tantra is a good place to start. Google is your friend!

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