I offer GFE and I think I would rather engage in that then PSE.

I agree with all the comments. "Stick to what works for you. Your body your choice!"

Have a wonderful Sunday.

Hugs
Lady Sade

I contacted a seemingly popular girl several days ago looking for some gfe as her advert states she offers it while on the forum it's a totally different ball game. I asked her what exactly is it that she offers and her response was. (my services depends on who i am with and what you the next person is looking for.I enjoy PSE but I offer even gfe)

Now my question is, how does a person offer what they don't enjoy? Doesn't PSE bring in enough business? Is it desperate measures? Don't ask me to name her as this just confused me and I just need some clarity, I didn't even bother to go through with making that appointment.

Back to the topic, I'm leaning more to Victoria's response, gfe is more sensual and slow and you pay attention to detail, and gfe is down right degrading to women, and also degrading to the men that likes to treat women like door mats, that's just my opinion, maybe some men just enjoy PSE like some kind of sports, after a hectic business meeting.

I think the problem with subjective labeling is that it depends on the participants' prior experience and understanding. Participants being the Punter and SP.

The reason for labeling services is to give a prospective visitor an idea of what can be expected. The first thing I learnt as a Punter is not to have expectations...

Read reviews, especially reviews from "experienced" guys. Once you've identified a lady that sounds like a match with regards to what you are comfortable with, go ahead and make the call. But still don't just expect magic to happen. Chemistry and emotions amongst other things plays a huge role in a pleasant visit.

Using a lady as a machine is just plain wrong. Get yourself a blowup doll then unstead.

Throughout any visit, always respect her boundaries and know your own boundaries. This can only be established through proper communication.

So true MrShy .. thinking that different strokes for different blokes may also apply .. some guy receiving OWO will be on cloud nine and thinking he just had the PSE !!!

I think it really boils down to punters must try and connect their fantasies with the correct SP. There are plenty of SP's im sure who provide for and enjoy PSE.

It is all about the fantasy of it:The porns that are watched give an "idea" of what looks like mind blowing amazing sex and guys try to emulate that and end up not really satisfied because they forget that women turn to these ways of making money out of desperation not the desire to be rammed hard by a group of men. She is acting. Its a Movie.

Guys should watch the womans faces and eyes in the porns instead of the punani and maybe what you see in the face of the woman will open mens minds and eyes .... But again that is just my opinion and I am sure that even Porn, in its own way, serves some purpose.

Have a great day all and Cum play with me instead of discussing semantics... ;)

Mwah xxx

V

On 2018-03-26 08:02:55 MrShyGuyV2 said:


Using a lady as a machine is just plain wrong. Get yourself a blowup doll then unstead.

Sorry MrShy I just had a little chuckle there with your statement...lol. Thank you for making me laugh!

Now just to steal your queue on what you said. A friend of mine sent me a video clip of a new product on the market from the Pipedream sex products and toys. 2 sets of half bodied rubber buttock dummies, one for the black and white pussy and starfish lovers. Jiggling and twerking arse when spanking too. There's a pussy hole and the starfish hole then another hole where all the sperms disperse. The rep advertising this product demonstrates on how to use these dummies holes, use your finger inside the pussy and split the 2 arse cheeks to finger or insert the penis. Which takes me back to the PSE participators that instead of performing so vigorously on a human body they can purchase such and use it to their advantage as they see fit. Which they must be careful they don't tear it up though...lol

And yes stick to what is comfortable for you. But like myself I do too offer a full on GFE because I have a very sensual nature which allows me to connect with the person I'm with. Theres full on passion there no doubt! If no one wants that type of intimacy then a FH would be my standard quality offer. I used to offer the full on PSE but my body couldn't take it anymore so I decided not to anymore. I do add a few flavours of PSE though just to spice up my sessions. Never had any complaints with my tweaks. We are both happy and if I can't offer something I simply mention it on the phone or on my quote to save someone from wasting their time.


Good one BOOBS!