We do not know what goes on in the private lives of those who interact here....sometimes a bit of understanding would be appreciated....everyone we meet is walking a difficult path....death and disease is all around us....The least we can do is show some kindness because we do not know if a person is losing a close friend to some incurable disease or if someone's parent is on their death bed....These are realities...egos have no place in the greater scheme of things...Unfortunately I'm not able to edit my post otherwise I would've removed the name I should not have typed. I'm sorry for any pain I've caused OP.
Namaste

Jewel, nobody said anything about private lives....this is a PUBLIC forum and we all respond accordingly. I fully agree, we don't know what's going on in anyones life and we all have our tragedies. That's life and it's often cruel just like human nature!