Will you find one lady with all of the characteristics of the ladies you mentioned...no..probably not. That is like building a "lego lady".

But I do think that if you find somebody special all those different characteristics might not be that important to you anymore. She will be totally different...but still the one who you want to be with. In your eyes she will be perfect.

Don't give up looking for the right one....if that is what you truly want.

Good luck Meneer.

Frank... I'm quiet... because I know exactly what your going through... be strong.

Or could it be that normal relationships are becoming more like punting where you're getting some in exchange for something but in that relationship you don't have the option of those eyes tonight, that smell the next day, and that mouth in the morning?

keep at it!!! she is out there!

Do they feel the same way about you?

Although Iv'e become more resigned to being single for the rest of my life, should an opportunity present itself, I won't put my nose up at it! Problem would be that I probably have become to used to my own company and doing things my own way. Not sure if I actually prefer it that way!