Well there is the Red site. More KZN girls advertise there for some reason

Lonely one, don't listen to the negative. Often, if someone disagree in an attacking way, all seem to fallow. You can and should do this, just to break the ice! Do some homework on the ladies in the area and stay safe. Don't make a habit of this though... Just go buy this experience! Whoop Whoop!!!

Lonely, avoid the strip clubs my advice. That 4.5k will be gone after a few drinks and...... Lol...otherwise .go for it buddy!

I'm not saying the kid shouldn't punt... I'm not his mom.
I'm just saying if he wants to no one can stop him.
All I know it's really addictive and with his salary it could becomes a problem.
Like everone else he will buy a fantasy...
And believe me.. him coming from a dating site he wouldn't know the reality from fantasy.
I know punters that's been punting for years and give it up eventually.
They chase and the money's spend and the heartbreak that comes with it wasn't worth it.
It only takes one good booking to make You hooked.

Dear Meg

"If i knew what this lifestyle would do to my life I wouldn't have never got into it or never even start.
It had its perks....some more good then bad but the bad remained and left a permanent mark."

Don't forget that the start of every day a "brand new" - no one has been there before you to tarnish it. For that matter - each second as it ticks towards you is a new opportunity. Just a thought.
JetFuel
xxxx

True that Jet....
Choices we all need to live with the ones we make.

Ahhhh the wisdom of the absalutely beautiful Meg! She's so very right! It's takes one realy good booking and you're hooked and then eventually broke! Fantasy is totally different from reality here and that screws with your mind.......

@ lonelysoul, have a look at these threads:

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php


I say stay away from here and work on your confidence and social skills in the real world.
From your initial post I'd say you're here for all the wrong reasons.
This site is not going to resolve your loneliness.

Hey all

Sorry for the late reply but my job has been demanding alot of my attention lately and also, I was just waiting to see what the general response to my thread would be.

First off, let me apologize for the "no condoms" statement I made in the first post. I had no intention of offending anyone with that statement and if I did, I'm truly sorry. Honestly speaking, I think that statement should serve as an adequate expression to you all as to how new to this whole world I really am.

I am not "ignorant of basic sexual health issues" as some would suggest, I was merely under the impression that WG's came prepared with regards to their own contraceptives and so forth. It is also not the case that I am "unable to relate, on the most basic level, to women" (or something to that affect) that someone else suggested. On the contrary, based on the number of threads I've come across on this site in which WG's complain about being harassed by other member's of this forum, I'd hazard a guess to say that I have far more respect for women than most guys (if some of them can even be called that?) on this forum. The fact that I decided not to fuck my (and another's) life up by having a child neither of us were prepared for even though the opportunity was right in front of me, should display this adequately.

Furthermore, I think a few of you have assumed a bit too much regarding my intentions. If there's one thing you must understand, is that, in my line of work, I have seen countless individuals, who have spent their entire lives in the industry, who have gone through their entire lives alone, and who never once got the chance to be intimate with someone, to relate to someone on a level other than that of the rather somber reality we have to face on a day-to-day basis, and these people are some of the most bitter, jaded, and confused people you will come across. The reason I am here is simply because, I do NOT want to become like them. At this stage of my life, I'm willing to part with a large sum of my money to just have a women to talk to, someone I can talk with on a really deep level. What happens before or after that is, to be honest, rather irrelevant from my standpoint. If you guys/girls could be in my shoes for a few days, see what I see, experience what I experience, you'd understand that, financial security be damned, people like me need to do what they must in order to try and live a normal life (whatever the fuck thats supposed to mean...)

Now, as for those who keep referring me to dating sites and telling me that this is not a lifestyle I'll be able to afford, respectfully, I don't think you should concern yourselves with my financial wellbeing. If the winds continue blowing in my favour, I should soon be far away from where I am now and earning a hell of a lot more than I currently am. Regardless, I have substantial "rainy day" savings which I can also rely on. In terms of dating sites, I wonder how many of you have actually been on to South African dating sites recently? If you haven't noticed, they are the domain of cougars, sugar-mommy's and other odd characters, none of whom I have any interest in dealing with. "No strings attached" sites like Tinder, whilst catering to a younger audience, are not places where very respectable people tend to hang out. To be honest, I'm still not too sure if this site is even the right one for me, but over the course of the next few months, I'll be hanging around here, checking the forums, messaging some girls, seeing what the general vibe, atmosphere, and culture of this site is. I've heard a number of forum members saying that this is a "purple world". If this is true, then I can only hope that the purple comes in different shades :)

I must thank most of the people on this thread though for their genuine, helpful, and constructive responses to my post. I hope this site turns out to be what I've been looking for for a while now, and if so, I hope we get to know each other better! Thanks for the welcome everyone :)

PS: Sorry for the text wall