Hi all. First time posting on the forum. I would like to hear from anyone who can share their experiences of their first time venturing in to the lifestyle. I would like to experience this but know I will be to shy to do anything. However my curiosity is growing stronger. Your experiences, advise would be appreciated. Thanking you in advance. Regards

@Zee01...if you are a single male, good luck. The clubs are usually flooded with single guys and thus the couples and single girls are spoilt for choice. It can be quite a thrill though. Kisses, Mynx

It is a lot of fun but you need a female partner. There is just too much competition among single guys for the few women. See if you can get a fuck buddy interested.

Hi @Mynx and @Johnd.thanks for feedback. Well don't have a f buddy so that will be a challenge def don't want to go as a single guy even if I don't do anything their :). Well curiosity will just have to grow. Thanks

I have had plenty fun voyuering around places that offer daytime fun for naughty adults. You have to connect with the couple or at the female partner must want extra cock... then your in if youre close by of course...

I visited a club in London-Phoenix parties. It was awesome! They control the numbers, so 2 guys to each girl, so everyone gets to play! I thought I was shy, but what a turn on, watching and being watched. Highly recommended.

Zee, I did the rounds at the various swingers clubs for a few years as a single - I've had many, many amazing experiences. A couple of kak ones too, but that comes with the territory.

I learned a lot about my own sexuality and a whole new world opened to me.

My suggestion to you - go visit a few of the places but don't pressurise yourself to do anything. Just watch and familiarise yourself with what goes on. The rest will come of its own accord.

If you have a regular that does do the swinger clubs, ask her to introduce you to the scene.

Now go and have fun! :-)

Hi Zee, well im talking under correction. I wanted to join a swingers club this year, but they said i needed a partner to join and you need to be approved by the club or something like that( you cant join alone). You cant walk in there expecting to get lucky on the first day(unless you look like brat pitt LOL). My opinion is go a few times, have a look at some couples and if they choose you and you like them....you can join them for a fun session. This is another world(lifestyle) on its own. For me, i would only be happy to go and see what it looks like and how they operate.

Thank you all for the advice and the feedback. It is much appreciated. Hopefully I get to experience this one day. Regards Zee