Luckily the wg's also have a right to choose
If we don't want to see someone or they make us feel uncomfortable we simply ask them to leave and never to return
Its best to keep your "working relationship" and personal life apart
As wg you set your own rules,and don't let anyone bring you down
Its your way or the highway

Some guys tell you that they want to leave their wives for you and then you just need to set them straight
Its simply like friends with benefits or "bussiness"

Money isn't everything,we don't sell our souls. We simply offer a service like therapy- lol

We also get a little nervous when meeting a new guy for the first time just like the men do,we just hide it easier

I believe in life there is always some regret or remorse. If there isn't then u are not human. I do agree we all have our own difficulties to over come. I want more time with my child and my family. I'm lucky in some ways. Not all but some of my family know what I do for a living and they still support me. They know I am taking care of myself and I can handle what I do. It is best to keep in mind it is a business and not to get emotionally attached to your clients. I am very good at putting a bad punt behind me but sometime a night out is a good stress reliever.

The profiles of Sammy/Nikita - lol they can look at those shoots and have self pity

The biggest portion of Punter's regret for me is as a result of some concern I do have for WG's. Some days I can convince myself that I helped out by being a customer but often I am dejected and wish only those who really want it could be in the industry and life could just work out for all the others.

Problem is you can never tell who actually enjoys it so every punt reminds me of some of the cruelty that exists in this world.

The only regret I have is not having met Meg, yet!

I could say so much in responding to this topic, but it would be way to personal, heart wrenching and soul destroying.

So simply I will quote Elizabeth Gilbert...

The women who I love and admire for their strength and grace did not get that way because shit worked out for them.
They got that way because shit went wrong, and they handled it.
They handled it on a thousand different days, in a thousand different ways... But they handled it!
Those women are superhero's!

Mwah

Arz

Certainly an interesting topic that brings along various points of view. It's an interesting industry that brings a person's moral belief into light. I can agree that there is an element of risk that each party is exposed to. I do find myself wondering about that moment or day when a WG decided to make the leap and say this is what I'm going to do. I wonder what some of the influences might have been. I reflect on my first punt and how nervous I was and I wonder how a WG coped on that day with her very first client. Anyways there's a lot of wonderings and I'm sure there's a lot more that can be said from punters and WG'S. I do enjoy the chit chat being in their company. Some don't like to open up and that's fair play. Anyways this is proving to be an interesting forum and some good topics. Take care people.

Arizona...

xxxxxxxxxxx!!!!!!!

B.

"it dawned on him that he was experiencing a sneak preview of a life he had no idea existed.

He was early. Sitting in his car and watched her arrival. She climbed out of her car, hands flailing all over the place.
Her mobile headset on. Large Jacky O glasses shielding her eyes.
She looked good.
Acknowledging his presence with a dismissive wave.

He realized she was involved in a very heated debate. His curiosity getting the better of him, turning the ignition halfway to open his window in the hope of hearing some.

Nope.
Nothing.
She had already moved a distance away and disappeared behind the gate.

10 mins to go.
He truly hoped the "f###er" who had upset her would not inadvertently spoil his hour of fun.

Before time and the gate opened and there she stood all smiles and very inviting.

Ok.

So far so good.

She was always very welcoming. He could not believe the warmth of her greeting and the sincerity of the hug that enveloped him.

And then he looked in her eyes....
The pain he saw struck him.

she started to walk ahead of him.

"Stop." he said.

And as she turned he pulled her gently toward his body and held her tightly, yet gently.

"Breathe. Just breathe."

Her body sagged and she clung to him for dear life.

That moment of human kindness and empathy led to a session not defined as perfection, for nothing is perfect.

But a session of total purity of intent to connect and give unconditionally.

It would stay with him for the rest of his life."

....empathy is not a weakness.

As one of my dearest punters sometimes signs off

.....Namaste. (A greeting of peace, honour and respect.)

xxx.
B.

Absolutely Beautiful Arizona and so true ;-)