Hi Lady Freya! Thanks for the offer. I will have to make arrangements to come see you. You're not close, but I'll have to make the effort.

More details on Lucy please.

I am very petite, you should give me a try, you won't regret it. I am situated in Pretoria though

Guys, I know and understand that it is perfectly understandable that smaller gents prefer smaller and more petite ladies, and I speak from personal experience, because at 1.76m I am not exactly the biggest guy around. I also went through most of my life where I exclusively dated and only saw petite women -- the tinier the better. Almost to the point the point that it became a fetish -- if a tiny slim 1.4-1.5m Lolita with long hair and attitude walked by, I simply had to say hello. That didn't mean to say that I never found bigger girls to be attractive though. It is just that I had a mental block about being intimate with a woman who was bigger than me.
Then one day I met a really pretty girl who was nowhere near my idea of "perfection" -- she was a little chubby and a fairly big girl. One thing led to another and a few hours later we ended up at my place. In a way, I was dreading the intimacy, yet she had a "something" about her that really got my endocrine system going. It was a really good encounter and I discovered some pretty sexy things about her in the process. I then realised that it was all in my mind.
So one day I had a line-up at a house of ill repute, and all of the girls were fairly large. I was feeling a little adventurous and for a hoot, deliberately chose the largest girl. It turned out to be an absolute blast. I have subsequently tried it again, but have had varying results ranging from just plain awful, to pretty cool, to dynamite. Pretty much the same as when I strictly enforced my “petite ladies only” policy.
I realised a whole lot of things through these experiences:
1. Because a girl is tiny and petite, it does not exactly mean that she favours smaller guys (like me). I know for a fact that there are many tiny babes who really prefer really big guys. It is a brain thing as much as it is a size thing – for both genders.
2. Just because a girl is large and (perhaps) a little chubby, does not mean that she does not appreciate a smaller, more energetic and athletic guy giving her some loving, whether sexually or otherwise (like just doing things that a decent normal gentleman would do).
3. Sexually and otherwise, I have to date met (and been with) quite a few Amazonian-type women to know that “bigger guys are better” is simply not true (both casually as well as WGs). It is also not true that they could not satisfy me, on the contrary, I find some of the bigger girls to be completely and utterly amazing.
4. There is a bigger payoff: As a small guy, knowing that I have *really* satisfied a good looking big girl who is bigger and taller than myself, and having given her great pleasure, knowing that I have probably been her best, Man, that is one cool feeling. And the challenge of making up for the body size factor is equally cool.
So, to summarise: I agree that short, petite girls are great, but constantly being with small girls can lead to complacency, as well as mentally limiting yourself to women of a certain size. Overlooking the bigger girls can lead to denial of some amazing women and equally amazing experiences.
So, to the smaller guys who get my point/s, don’t limit yourself, have fun and be safe.