To Local Hunk and all his guest that came with him to The Harem last night, I would like to apologise for my bad behaviour, rudeness and attitude. I have a problem with putting my words right and making myself come across in a proper manner. I am in the process of sorting all of that out right now as I write this to you. I hope that you will accept my apology and I ask if you could come over again, so that I may say it to you face to face and to show you how I am really and truly sorry. I'm offering a round for you and your friends on me as an ice breaker in my apology. Please don't let my attitude be the cause of you not coming to The Harem, how I was towards you is in no way a reflection of how the rest of the ladies are. The ladies and I love having you guys around and your presence at the house is greatly welcomed. Please reconsider it an come over one more time. I would like to work a way around this matter and move forward to great times and good memories together here at The Harem.

I have no idea what happened for you to post this, but i sense a sincerity in your apology that has to be commended. I admire people that are not afraid to put themselves out there and apologise for hurting or offending someone, and open themselves to possible criticism and ridicule at the same time. I hope they all find it in their hearts to forgive you and give you the chance to apologise in person, if for nothing else but for the free drink :)

You have taken a big step, and i for one am impressed and proud of you.

To sphinx

I apologise for only responding to you now but I haven't been on the forum much or even on esa as I found myself very comfortable at the harem, and havnt been booking anywher else in the past few months.
I must say it takes alot of courage to admit your wrongs and apologise on a open forum with so many people out there that can judge you.
Honestly I don't know much about you as we haven't had the opportunity to get to know each other but who knows in the future wat may transpire..
I glady except your apology and will pass it on to the usual friends I always bring along..

I have had an absolute blast at the harem and have gotten to know everyone and have had many awsome times there, it is 1 of the top venues out there that offer everything I as a punter could need, yes we have had some issues but if we don't voice our opinions one might never know where we are going wrong!
I think that manegment is doing there very best to keep us all happy and it is unfair for any 1 individual to be bringing there name down..
I'm glad you looking at changing your attitude and I'm sure it will be for the best.
To the Harem I apologise for bringing this out in the open but maybe you needed to see the few people that will cause you guys to loose clients and stain your name.
I encourage any other clients out there to voice your opinions so that the manegment can address your issues(if you have any) and resolve it..
I for 1 think that the Harem has alot of class and a wonderful selection of ladies.
And I would like to thank you for seeing to it that Sphinx apologised.
1 more thing please address your security gaurd as I think it's really unprofessional in the way he treats your clients.
Sorry bout my SA
But I think it covered it all..
I for 1 would say I think that this will make it a better place for us to punt at..

To err is human.
Mika is stunning, ain't she now?
All's well that ends well.

Great stuff Sphinx. Whilst on the security guard issue i would like to know from the Harem if they really do brief these security guards about what goes on in the premises and to respect clients. i say this because after driving all the way from Pta last week to the Harem , the last thing I needed was to encounter a security guard who not only gave me disgusting looks which made me feel dirty so much as saying i know what you came to do here you filthy sick bastard as well as not assisting at all in terms of parking. I couldnt proceed to do what i had planned for the evening, my mood was ruined. i had to settle for a drink only and left promptly to go my usual trusted venue in Pta. I hope the Harem looks into that.

It takes someone very humble to acknowledge their mistake and then go one step futher to fix it also acknowledging its a individual problem and not blaming the rest of the group. Well done sphinx.

Thanks guys for your feedback..
I'm sure that the Harem will look into the issue with the security gaurd and we can hear some positive feedback from the amazing ladies that work there.
Yes there is some awsome women at the Harem and I'm sure they don't want to loose business due to the attitude of the other staff on the premises..

I must say, the Sphinx I know is an absolute charm, it must have been something extraordinary to set her off.

It is a nice place, I have only met Sphinx and I think a girl named Chanel? I had arrived a bit early and was waiting in the lounge, Chanel (?) thought I was her appointment, I received an amazing hug and kiss ha ha ha ha

I must agree about the security guard.... It is in fact the only reason I no longer go to the harem. Every time he insists where you must park and tells you to get closer to the other vehicles and then you come out and there is a new dent on your door. I do understand that parking is limited but why not have the guard outside and offer some way of covering the vehicle if punters so require? It is also the only reason I will not go to a party at the harem as I can just imagine the hassle with the parking on those days

And 2nd I must say I must agree that it must have been a really off day for sphinx to be rude I always found her friendly and delightful in fact she was the first lady to relax me at the harem and to get me to settle down

Sphinx, your actions in apologising, are highly commendable. We all have our off days. Keep up the good work.