I need some advice here ... I have a good friendship with a W/G and book her frequently. We've agreed on a sleepover. I want this girl to feel treated special without the perception that I might be in love with her as this is definitely not the case. We only have a good working friendship ... and yes she is special, gorgeous and sexy.

Do I give her a gift on the sleepover? I don't want to go jewelry or perfume. It's too personal and might send the wrong message. I'm thinking something small but giving the message ... 'You are special ... Thank you for sharing this evening with me' ... OR ... Should I drop the gift idea and just enjoy the evening?

So what to do? ... Any suggestions from you guys?

Jade & Tasha you guys are the experts ... What say you girls??

While I don't know you or her personally, you sound in love or at the very least infatuated. While its clear the ladies who work in the sex industry are people to, its very, very rare that you find someone who has it together. Tasha and Jade are a case in point the far majority are a disaster area or a disaster area waiting to happen.

A gift sounds good but may be misconstrued, giving the impression that you pussy whipped.

Why don't you cook her dinner. Bubble bath scented candles, back rub, foot rub, and whole nine yards. Eat her pussy for hours but don't fuck her, she will really dig that and want you more.

Clearly the lady is special and appears to be in control of her life; and as Marquis puts it, this is rare among working girls.

I would not give a gift... this will definitely send the message that there may be more to the relationship than you would like to let on.

If you are comfortable in the kitchen, a delicious home cooked meal will make the evening special, for both of you. In general, treating her with 'love' and respect and not rushing the evening will send a clear message that you think she is special without necessarily giving her something to take away and hold dear (or laugh at later).

In general, the best girlfriend experience arises when you treat the lady like a girl friend. This can be a fantastic evening for both of you, but will only happen if you lead the way; and this lady who is clearly special (maybe even dear) to you will leave feeling very special indeed.

If you want to really show your appreciation for great service, my experience leads me to believe that nothing beats a handsome tip... and that is what I would advise in this instance. The rest is something you may optionally want to do because it makes you feel good to treat her like a lady!

Yup ... Decided to drop the gift idea.

No ... I'm not in love ... Maybe I feel guilty booking her because of the good friendship and don't want her to feel to be a working girl in my company.

Thx ... You cleared my mind.

I agree with Marquis and Valentine, no gift but a speciual treat at home will do. As for the tip, no, thats no on otherwise its just another way for paying for time. I would rather (if possible) take her out on a follow-up to a concert / romantic sundowner instead.

Hey Capie

The guys are giving you really excellent advice here. You have a really great friendship with this girl and a gift might be misconstued by her. Treating her like a friend may be the best course of action.

When I do give gifts to the girls, it is allways something really small like a good book (ie Gibran's Prophet) or a cd or something like that, which conveys the message that I do care as a friend and conveys nothing more.

Keep away from giving expensive gifts. I am not talking about Tash and Jady here, but there are some great girls who are not adverse to taking expensive gifts.

It is also important to keep your emotions in check and to have a clear head. Marquis de Sade, may have a point when he states, that it sounds as if you are infactuated by her.
I hope that this doesn't sound to paternalistic. Enjoy your sleepover.

Cheers

Garry

My advice : take your complimentary sleepover, give it horns all night then go get yourself a new identity and leave the country ! Sounds like she may be setting you up pal and preying on your kind and soft side ....... beware !

Hi Capie,

I am with all the other oke's above on the no gift thing.
Just remember the reason you've invited her for the sleepover is because you are her freind!

You obviously both have the chemistry bit going well together. This is the most important above all.

It is a natural progression in your freindship to invite her for a sleepover or whatever. I mean you have already fucked her so it is not like, that which often happens, that you are just trying to get her into bed and need to pamper her with a gift! False!!

You are just enjoying each others company and having Fun together! Just chill, relax and treat her like the freind she is. You do not need to feel guilty just because you two met through the biz she is in. I mean it does not bug you that she is being screwed by all and sundry every day... that is her job! (Hopefully not, anyway other wise you've got a Problem my Bru'....). So just have a good time together like... Freinds.

As an aside, depending on your personality, it is sometimes easy to get infatuated with a girl, however if she lets you develop it as seems to be the case here, then maybe she's also a bit infatuated with You!

Chill! ;-)

Thx Guys ... Good advice ..

Because of the friendship my concern was that should I do the gift idea ... It might send her the wrong message and start something I don't want. The friendship is perfect as it is. A good friend is invaluable ... A love relationship or even a hint of it will spoil it forever!... And in between there's a very thin line!

And no her job is no issue to me ... It's none of my business ... That's how I got to know her.

Let's face it ... The very reason most of us do this in stead of having an affair is:

1.) It's uncomplicated
2.) The variety
3.) It's adrenalin rushing

and most of all ... It's damn good fun!!

Watch out ladies ... The guys on this forum is good!! ... lol

;)