Posted: 2006-10-31 22:49:32
Katie
I think there are 2 aspects to the "mature" lady.
1.) Is the lady over and above a certain age.
2.) Mature as in their quality of service, no rush etc.
With the first one when I was 19, to me the ideal mature lady was 35 - 45 and I went purely by the number of of age and still do to this day. That is my preference, I always wanted to be with an older woman. Can't tell you exactly why but an older woman always got my fancy.
As for the second point, I think does come into play a bit but in away is still linked to the age. By the time a woman reaches a certain age she already knows who she is, what she wants, has lost alot of her insecurities about her sexuality and probably knows that if a man is chasing her its because he finds her very attractive. Hence a mature lady in this business is more relaxed and better partner. Having said that I have made one or 2 appointments with a mature lady and she was no different to alot of the young girls ( 19 - 25 ) who do just provide a wham, bam, thankyou ma'am service.
In speaking to many of my mature partners, some have admitted to me that they sometimes feel pressured into providing a better service as they are in competition with a llot of young girls who's only really selling points is pretty face and a stunning body and because of this they are overlooked.
As for you Katie, I have had the pleasure of being with you and although you're not what I would consider as mature based on your age you do have a good attitude about your job. You are never rushed, always make a customer feel welcome and special.
Thats just on my own conclusions based on my own experiences.