Hi All,

maybe someone can tell me if i have been advised correctly. i have a problem with my g/f which my buddy tells me a working girl can help me with.

my g/f is VERY specific with what she wants. she wants no foreplay, does not like being masterbated - even self masterbation, .. she only likes to wrap her legs around my head in the misionary and only wants a hard pounding like that - from start to finish - this is problematic coz in this position i dont last longer than a couple mins. leaving her frustrated... having a beautiful face, sexy slender body with perfect fake tits, really doesn't help the situation... if i change position or slow down she doesn't enjoy herself enough...

my buddy reckons this working girl might be able to either teach me how to last longer in that posistion, or she may tell me another position she might like just as much which wont send me over the wall.

is this good advice ? has anyone else been 'helped' like this by these ladies who provide us with an invaluable service? does anyone have any other advice, perhaps someone who used to suffer my problem?

Ciao

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Hi,

I don't really think a working girl is going to solve your problems. I would rather have a look around the internet and try and get help from a professional sex therapist, like Dr Eve for example http://www.dreve.co.za/ Your girlfriend, hot as she is, must realise that you have needs as well and it sounds like she's being a bit selfish. Sure you're happy to do her the way that she wants but she must also let you do her the way you want. Who knows she might even discover other postions she likes. Your solution needs to start outside the bedroom by talking to her about how you feel, telling her exactly what you told us right now. Ask her what it is about that positions that she likes so much, and what it is about the other positions that she dislikes. She doesn't like masturbation, maybe you can suggest (you need to be tactful though) getting a vibrator that she can use privately at first and then maybe with you. Things may not change overnight but letting her know how you feel would be the first step.

Good luck.

Hey fortitudinous

There are many different positions, which to me are all different in intensity of the experience. You can control your excitement by breathing, but it is all in the mind and you will have to learn to control your penis with your mind.
A working girl will be able to help you, but you will have to learn to help yourself as well.

Maybe you must try muffing her. Most girls like it a lot in my experience, but that is up to you.


You will get more experience as to sex, forsure from working girls and will definately become a better lover.

Working girls are like any other girls. They are human. You will have a swell time with the right working girl or girls. I cannot recogmend any girl in Cape Town, since I am in Gauteng.

RobboLR, is giving you excellent advice. Sex is a sharing experience...

Cheers

Garry