Hey there its nice to see that some of the girls are starting to list race preferance, what prompted the change of stance ??

The market sets the tone

The race thing is a very interesting thing for me, because I have never been declined even by girls that have clearly stated race preferences. From what I have been able to glean from the various girls that do have a race preference, it onlt applies to Africans.

For some reason, a black man with a heavy English accent is okay, especially when he arrives in a R800,000 car!

I respect the girls right to have a race preference, but because I am black and am always accepted, I also know that what they actually mean is a class a preference - and we all know that due to South Africa's recent history, simply cutting out all people of colour, one is likey to simultaneously eliminate most of the lower classes who are perceived to be of higher risk by the girls.

I understand that the girls need to protect themselves, but the race thing will increasingly backfire because they never tell you on the telephone that they have a race preferance (unless you have a "black accent"). I find that they are almost surprised to see me - I am almost always met with a big gaping stare and a "but, I thought you were... are you the same guy... oh okay then..." The last part usually comes as someone whispers something into their ear (proberbly something like "did you see what he is driving, charge him double") or as they look past me at the car I arrived in

Johann,
You mean you’ve never slept with a black chick? Once you go black, you never go back….

Dude, you have way to many issues. Thanks for the laughs

Johan008,

Is there no end to your insanity? I wish for once you would just shut the @!#$ up. You are offensive and stupid!

I bet that no ladies look past you to see what car you are driving but I can almost guarantee that once you have left they have giggle over you!

Valentine, perhaps you should consider letting ladies know over the phone that you are Black thus avoiding the drive over just to be potentially turned away!

Sal

Yes, Sally you are probably right on that score.

But I am not sure I have the stomach to end every solicitation with "and... err... by the way... I am a black expatriate... is that going to be a problem?"

It is probably easier for them to say "... and I don't do greek, rimming, people of colour, toys..." I.e. build it into their services on offer speech.

I think that what most of the girls really mean "right of admission reserved," and that is fair. Just as many restaurants will not let you through the door in your shorts and t-shirt, the girl's not only have high standards to maintain, they also have their personal safety and health to keep in mind.

I believe that most of the girls with race preferences are not racist; they are just trying to eliminate risk. The point I was trying to make was that race is increasingly becoming and unreliable mechanism for segmenting and filtering out high risk clientele because the bastards out there increasingly come in all races and creeds.

Clearly it is going to be impossible to evaluate the potential risk (personal security and health) of a prospective client, over the phone.

Perhaps instead of trying to establish whether or not a prospective client has an African accent, what they should be doing is trying to position the prospect relative to their environment. For example, they could ask, “where did you find out about me?” and then use that response to gauge the next question or the potential risk – e.g. if the response is “… oh from escortsa.com” or “… you were referred by a friend, Thomas…” then she can position the prospect relative to 1)his access to internet in a private environment (i.e. private office or study at home) or 2)does the name Thomas ring any bells, why didn’t this referral also give directions to her place, etc.

Valentine just use a couple of "eeshh" words in your expat accent on the phone and they will surely know your race to avoid this whole problem ;-) and instead of saying thomas use a name like ummm Baloyi or Dlumini reffered me lol

Johan!! My laaitie!! Lyk jy ken al die spyker plekke, hoe weet jy sy sluk as jy dit nie eers kan laat opstaan nie?