In my 8 years experience, I learned there are many reasons men choose to visit working girls. Perhaps you haven't, it's not what you looking for; or you have and found its not really what you wanted.

I find most men want to know how to initiate love making, or improve their skills and be, a better more confident lover. They want to deal with premature ejaculation or improve their oral techniques and endurance. Others want to explore sensuality & massage. There are also issues like inexperience, mismatched sex drives, sexless marriages ...

My role as life & sex Coach is to provide you with insight and information; to assist you with your sexuality in a non physical way. I use typical audio and visual aids to cover the theory, and we can discuss the practical side of things later on. I coach individuals, couples and groups: such as schools, universities, cocktail parties and bachelorettes.

Ive learned allot over the years and my fun, warm, matured approach to sexuality will help you relax and open up to me. I'm not judgmental and very straightforward. I've studied Psychology and Sociology; and a qualified Hypnotherapist and Reiki Practitioner. I'll use all my resources to assist you and expect 100% commitment.

My eternal goal is for you to experience deeper levels of love, communication, compromise, vulnerability and acceptance.

Into: life and sex (FULL)

I'm a qualified hypnotherapist (practice of NLP) and use this to
coach individuals and couples in their personal and sexual lives.

Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) is an approach to communication,
personal development, and psychotherapy created by Richard Bandler
and John Grinder in California, United States in the 1970s

I've come along way with NLP and my religion, they set me rite. My
natural gift is for people, I see souls, and know things about them, how to
fix them . I can find something to love in every person I meet, and
sometimes see more to love in you, the bigger you, even if you don't see
it or feel it yourself. I've been to all 4 corners of the earth in search of
myself and answers, not proud of everything I've done, and really don't
hold any guilt or contempt about it. Rather, like always I make the best of
every bad situation.

If you look at how the world is today, don't you think Out LOUD - humanity!
Where are you going? I've had many such moments and feel fortunate to
have lived the life I have. I didn't follow the crowd and been watching over
the years. I'd like to tackle hard topics like: Social monogamy, financial abuse;
old traditions vs modern living, been a better human and sex! I'd love to see
spouses "bonking" again. My theory is happy individuals equal happy couples,
happy couples equals happy kids, equal a happy home, happy neighborhood,
community and country! I firmly believe that we must begin our concentration
from the inside and work our way out. In the instance of charitable work and
NPO's; we can't save the world but we can certainly make a difference to the
neighborhoods and communities we live in. I best describe this on my NPO
called Fanuary (fan and jan); where getting involved with community driven
projects within your neighborhoods and communities will eventually see the
ripple effect of each community join together.

Info you look at relationships today: The violence, financial abuse, frustration,
double lives, cheating, lying. I don't buy It and have a different take on
modern living and the institution of marriage:

My theory is this: 2 beautiful independent shining people come together,
fall in love. And become insane. They getting carried away with themselves,
in a non realistic, irrational way which is not sustainable long term! And it's
my opinion that this is where the problem starts.

Another reason people get married is because they don't want to be alone.
And when that doesn't work out for them, they have children to revalidate
their lives. I mean since when did children run the household! Children must
know their place and their responsibilities! Be active members of the home.
I wondered if I was going mad! Then I realized, these guys never learnt how
to love themselves and be independent of needing anyone or anything. So
your children become your trophy, and you have gone into what I call a
"robotic depression". Neither happy or sad, just doing what you doing and
getting along with it. There is help for you, for your light inside to glow again,
for you to truly feel love in your life and in all that you do, in a consistent
and natural way.

Programs On offer:

1 Merge your boxes: (singles, couples and groups)
- become 1 whole person capable of love and been loved
- no more band-aids
- Vulnerability
- PMPDWRE
- Fall in love again: with life, yourself and your partner
- institution of marriage, social monogamy and financial abuse

2. Emotional direction
- Charisma and confidence
- Then human discipline & direction
- Selection process: in life and love
- Acceptance
- Communication
- Compromise

3. SEX-ED (men, women, couples & groups)

3.1 Adults
- What he really wants
- What she really wants

3.2 Emotional direction: become a better/skilled lover,
sexual maturity, massage & sensuality

3.3 Men
- endurance, premature ejaculation, oral for her, seduction,
wooing, gentlemanliness

3.4 Women
- climaxing, techniques for her, oral for him, ladiness & glow

3.5 Couples
- initiate love making, techniques for him and her, romance,
1 block at a time, forgiveness

3.6 Teens, Young Adults and Adults
- Sexual maturity
- Sexual safety
- Hygiene
- STD's
- Self preservation

All Groups are welcome; such as: schools, colleagues and universities.
We play harder with the adults and make sex fun, available for
cocktail parties and bachelorettes.

My role as a Sex Coach is to provide insight, information and to assist
you with your sexuality. in a non physical way; I use typical audio and
visual aids to cover the theory, and we can discuss the practical side
of things upon our first consultation.

My fun, warm, matured approach to sexuality will help you relax and
open up to me. I'm not judgmental and very straightforward. I've
studied Psychology and Sociology; and a qualified Hypnotherapist
and Reiki Practitioner. I'll use all my resources to assist you and expect
100% commitment.

My eternal goal is for you to experience deeper levels of love,
communication, compromise, vulnerability and acceptance.

Please feel free to contact me cell number 060 673 7391

or email: [Send Message]

Not at all cool Lady Jane, you know this is not allowed, if you need the cash for an ad, ill gladly stick you for a week or two, just ask

Hi ladies? and gentleman?

I'm an active advertiser on this site and now been informed of the rules how to managed my posting authority. The link to my profile:
www.esa.co.za/members/displayVenue.php

After researching the top 10 visited websites in South Africa, ESA is number 1, and cut it by a phat margin! Overall, out of the 100% of visitors to the website, it's my estimation that only 30% actually take part. And 10% of that are regular punters (the ones that vomit and poo all over the forum). My advert is therefore not for that 10% of visitors to the site, but the larger piece of the pie.

There will always be haters, 50 / 50 and I'm taking it all on!

Link to my profile again: www.esa.co.za/members/displayVenue.php
In case you missed the first time!!!

Previous profiles: Madi - Jodi - Cayla Britt - Lady Jane

I was told by 2 people from ESA that I would not receive a user name and passcode, I assumed the protocol was therefore to create a basic account and operate that way. I was wrong and indeed SUCH A REBEL, I'm sorry you so offended. I hope you get over it soon .... #crocodiletears

No thanks Qcumber (seems you been out the fridge too long)

I'm no longer an escort and will never take money for such a thing again! Cayla is gone. What I am doing is a life and sex coach wellness centre, hence why the advert is under the venues.