Posted: 2014-01-16 19:29:33
Dear orgasmicgirl,
Congratulations and well done to take control of your life and have responsibility for your actions. Your very sweet and kind request to have all your profiles and pictures removed from the Public Domain on the World Wide Web is a great idea but unfortunately is extremely complex and probably will never happen.
In every story there is Good news and Bad news but with your request the Good news far out-weighs the Bad news. The bad news first, what you have noticed is true, your profiles and pictures are still on the web BUT will not be seen by a normal electronic device using a normal internet browser with normal Google/Yahoo/Bing settings. Jemma is 100 percent correct as a normal search should not yield any of the websites where you are resident.
Unfortunately once something is up-loaded onto the Public Domain on the World Wide Web it is exactly that, available to everybody and everywhere in the world. The Hilton family discovered this and not all their billions of US dollars could have “One Night in Paris “ (in Paris) removed from the net. Instead of making lawyers very rich to achieve nothing the Hilton family decided to rather fed the poor and hungry and get on with life.
Paris never gave her permission to have these sex scenes up-loaded and she too never received a red cent from Rick Salomon, her ex-boyfriend. Ten whole years later and the sex tapes are still available to down load, free of any charge, just your bandwidth. Paris is seen as the victim and not the villain and this time of her formative years has not negatively impacted on her ability to generate her own wealth, said to be approx 100 million dollars.
Unfortunately in your particular circumstances you gave permission for your profiles and pictures to be saved and up-loaded onto the web. This means that you now live on these servers hosted anywhere in the world, more commonly known as the iCloud. Many people around the world can see your profile and pictures and they can download them, save them and then up-load them to their own unique iCloud and they are “saved” for ever and ever, Amen, Sorry but true. No one would ever know how many copies of you are “saved”, it would depend on your popularity and whether you have a high profile, like
Paris Hilton or a film star or even the future Queen of England who has her topless pictures on the web, not even the King and all his Men can have these removed.
Now the good news, as you have read, profiles and pictures of your private life are personal property and you wish to protect this, in line with many millions of people, mostly ladies, all around the world. The Internet Fathers know this too and some years ago they started a “School of Thought” named “Dot Triple-X”, a sponsored top-level domain ( sTLD) intended as a voluntary option for pornographic sites on the Internet.
Many thousands of Adult or XXX rated sites have changed to this domain and with correct settings in their filters search engines like Google/Yahoo/Bing etc will never find these sites. You will have to be intentional to go to these adult sites, you will not find them via your net nanny search engines.
Whether ESA, ST or PY etc will migrate to these domains will have to be a business decision the shareholders will need to make. Only 10-20 percent of people coming onto ESA come via a search engine, mainly Google as Yahoo and Bing etc appear to be not popular amongst the punter community. ESA are by far the best site in SA and Africa, Jemma reported that ESA were ranked 64,439th in the world on 17.02.2012, ESA are now ranked 52,522th out of 30 million domains, a huge compliment to the ESA team, their advertisers and the punter community. Ninety three percent of all visitors are based in South Africa and on average 10,000 visits per day are made. A slow day is 6,600 visitors with a recorded daily peak of 37,860, described as a “crazy amount of traffic”. Punters stay on ESA for between 10 and 20 minutes and have between 20 and 40 page-views in this time. I hope you now have a bigger picture that ESA is a Super efficient domain commanding a huge amount of respect and “Love” from their advertisers and their P4S clients.
Now the good news for you personally, you have made the first and biggest step to take back ownership of your life. You will need to develop a strategy of how you, your family and friends will react and deal with people who actively look for and discover you on the net. They will never find you “By Accident”. The Hilton family, the future King of England and many millions have all achieved this task with some success.
If you need any pointers on strategy formulation I can help you with some basic information but there will be many people in the community who will be able to assist you.
I have the various URL / web address where you reside on the web, let me know if
You are interested in these. Jemma has asked you to e-mail her the URL’s, not sure if that is an offer to help you have these removed. As mentioned the Hiltons and the Kings and Queens just take ownership and carry on with life, you will delete one and then another one or maybe 2 will appear. The more you attract attention to yourself the more people will want to know, exactly what happened to me. Until you created that thread I did not even know you existed, now I now a huge amount about you going back to 2008.
What ever your decision, I compliment you and wish you all success as you get on with your new life and embrace ownership of your formative years. You cannot hide and wish them away, those years were part of your life, be proud, be honest, be open and above all acknowledge your achievements since 2008.
To the community,
I am not a WHH, I was bored last evening waiting for the next event so logged on to ESA forum and started to read from the bottom to top and came across this thread and was stirred emotionally to an open and heart felt request to achieve a nigh impossible task.
I could feel this young ladies’ pain and without any knowledge of her I believe she deserves our wholehearted support and assistance. Please get in touch with your own humanity and mortality.