Posted: 2018-06-29 11:29:12
Why did you start punting? - Not actually sure why. I figure I was lonely at the time and needed a shag.
How old were you? - 44
Were you married or single? Single, but living with my girlfriend of 4 years. She was away for business.
Are you still having sex at home? - No, not really. Not at home anyway.
How often are you still having sex at home? - Very seldom. Been over a year now due to various reasons.
Who is initiating the sex at home? - Usually me.
Are you and your partner both equally satisfied after sex at home? I am sometimes. She seems to be. I don't get complaints.
What gave you the idea to pay for sex and why do you pay for it? - I can get what I need when I need it. Sometimes there is an 'itch' I need scratched. The Illicit nature adds to the fun factor.
If not, why not? - NA
Why do you still punt? - Why not? I punt very seldom.
At what age did you start punting? - 44
How long have you been punting for? - Just under a year.
How many times a week, month or year do you punt? - A couple of times a year. I have other avenues besides punting.
How is sex with your wife different from the sex we have? - Sex with every partner, whether in a relationship or not is different. Outside of the main relationship the sex is more lustful and more 'fun'. Inside of the main relationship it is more comfortable.
Where does your partner think you are when you are out punting? - Either riding (har har) or meetings or visiting friends.
Is it a regular lady you see or are you looking for something different every time? - No regulars yet, if I had to settle on one, that would be an easy choice.
Do you crave the same kind of experience from each working girl or do you have uniquely different experiences with them each? - So far, uniquely different experiences.
How do the experiences differ, and why? - Differences in professionalism, intimacy, warmth, conversation, connections of different levels.
Are the ladies aware of your different fantasies? - Not really. I'm pretty conventional. I look for a GFE. If I don't get it, I probably won't see the lady again, but some of the ladies are just too hot to not experience at least once, even if it isn't a GFE.
Deep down if you are married, what would stop you from punting and start you wanting to share all these experiences with your wife/partner? - I wouldn't stop punting on a permanent basis.
Why don't you or what stops you from sharing these fantasies and experiences with your partner? - Not really interested at the moment. Too much stress on both our parts (various sources and reasons)
Do you have feelings for the prostitute and what feelings do you have? - Warmth and closeness. Some more than others.
How would you define your need to carry on punting? - Usually a physical need to start, but that changes to a more warm need for intimacy once with the lady.
Is it a physical lack of intimacy at home, do you not feel worthy because you don't contribute to raising the children equally? Allowing your lady some down time after she has also had a long day? - There are no kids (that I am aware of). Yes. There is a physical lack of intimacy which I will freely admit I am partially responsible for.
How do you feel after you leave a prostitute? - Pretty good usually. Mulling the encounter over in my mind for a week or so afterwards.
Do you trust the prostitute? - Not 100%, but then I don't trust anyone 100%.
How have your feelings changed since your first visit to a prostitute until now if you have visited various ladies over a few years? - They haven't changed much.
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